Queston about steping out on mate

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Queston about steping out on mate
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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 12:48pm

For those of you have had an affair or would consider an affair this question is for you, Do you think you could have an affair that was just sexual with no emotions envolved?


If you had a person that you had sex with on a regular basis do you think you would develop an emotionl attachment?


Also if you ever did consider doing this would that mean that the love you once had for you mate had either gone away or was almost gone?


I believe for most women they try to have affairs but at some point emotions get involved. If they are married most would tell you they are no longer in love with their husbands.

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Registered: 04-26-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 11:49am

what I should have said is that our encounters have been between thousand pounds
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Tue, 06-03-2008 - 11:50am

lol.. Now how did I know you'd be the first to agree with me....


Thank you. I needed a change...

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Registered: 04-26-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 11:52am

Just being a newbie, a lurker out of lurkerdom. I have found the people here to be incredible!

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Tue, 06-03-2008 - 11:54am
OOOOOHHHHHH
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Tue, 06-03-2008 - 11:59am

Nice, a little bit of steel never hurt anybody, right?

 



  


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Registered: 03-17-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 12:00pm
Ummm.. becasue you know me too well, already...lol

 



  


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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 12:01pm
Mmmm, I was hoping you would....

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Registered: 04-30-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 12:26pm

Hi hotallthetime,


I have a hard time understanding (and it is just me) how 2 people can have a long time sex relationship with no emotions at all envolved. Is it possible or are they really fooling themselves?


I was 57 at the time that I was having my affair (she is 14 years younger than me).

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 2:38pm
Faboome, your post has so much wisdom. I like the part where you said
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Tue, 06-03-2008 - 2:45pm

Njmx3, thank you

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