Queston about steping out on mate

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Queston about steping out on mate
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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 12:48pm

For those of you have had an affair or would consider an affair this question is for you, Do you think you could have an affair that was just sexual with no emotions envolved?


If you had a person that you had sex with on a regular basis do you think you would develop an emotionl attachment?


Also if you ever did consider doing this would that mean that the love you once had for you mate had either gone away or was almost gone?


I believe for most women they try to have affairs but at some point emotions get involved. If they are married most would tell you they are no longer in love with their husbands.

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Registered: 03-04-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 4:18pm

Hottie....


Another reason I don't ask questions is because I'm not sure

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Registered: 03-04-2008
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 4:56pm
HAHA....I use that phrase a lot too.

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Registered: 04-30-2008
Wed, 06-04-2008 - 12:18am

Hi Hotallthetime,


So did your wife ever find out about your affair? Are you still married?


I don't think she did.

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Wed, 06-04-2008 - 8:08am

Njmx, Thank you for your words of wisdom. After reading what you posted NO you shouldn't have told your wife.


"I can only tell you that the end of a marriage is usually a long ride down a slippery slope.

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Wed, 06-04-2008 - 8:51am

I also have to meet a man that will love and accept my children for it to be a truely happy relationship. Will that ever happen I kinda doubt it.


Oh, Lori, please don't think like that. I'm sure the right person will come along for you. Just take the time to find him.

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Registered: 03-04-2008
Wed, 06-04-2008 - 9:16am

Since now I have 2 children with different fathers and the youngiest one is mixed then I also have to meet a man that will love and accept my children for it to be a truely happy relationship. Will that ever happen I kinda doubt it.


Hey Hon, you are absolutely right to make acceptance of your children a criteria for future potential mates.

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