Queston about steping out on mate

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Queston about steping out on mate
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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 12:48pm

For those of you have had an affair or would consider an affair this question is for you, Do you think you could have an affair that was just sexual with no emotions envolved?


If you had a person that you had sex with on a regular basis do you think you would develop an emotionl attachment?


Also if you ever did consider doing this would that mean that the love you once had for you mate had either gone away or was almost gone?


I believe for most women they try to have affairs but at some point emotions get involved. If they are married most would tell you they are no longer in love with their husbands.

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Registered: 03-17-2008
Sun, 06-01-2008 - 2:25pm
I don't think they discard a cyber lover's feelings but feel it is much easier to step away from a cyber lover...JMO

 



  


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Registered: 04-26-2008
Sun, 06-01-2008 - 2:45pm

Puma, do you ever see the woman you are having the emotional affair with?

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Sun, 06-01-2008 - 2:46pm
For some that may be true, but not all.

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Registered: 05-20-2008
Sun, 06-01-2008 - 2:48pm

Not at all, Miz P.......They're both fully aware of the other.


Muff

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Registered: 05-20-2008
Sun, 06-01-2008 - 2:51pm

LMAO


Muff

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Registered: 05-20-2008
Sun, 06-01-2008 - 3:02pm

Lori, I have a very, very special relationship with my cyber lover.

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Registered: 05-20-2008
Sun, 06-01-2008 - 3:07pm

Among all your other attributes, it seems you may just be

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Sun, 06-01-2008 - 4:37pm
Moi? I think you have me confused with someone else... lol... I love you too...

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Sun, 06-01-2008 - 5:50pm

Can you hear me laughing from way down here?


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Mrs P

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Sun, 06-01-2008 - 5:55pm

What I meant was...how do you suppose a cyber lover would feel about your wandering to another cyber lover at the same time? Would you admit to this?


My point being...I read and hear people say often that they aren't at all attached to a cyber partner nor their partner to them. Yet despite this purported unattachment they catch hell for cybering with

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