Queston about steping out on mate

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Queston about steping out on mate
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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 12:48pm

For those of you have had an affair or would consider an affair this question is for you, Do you think you could have an affair that was just sexual with no emotions envolved?


If you had a person that you had sex with on a regular basis do you think you would develop an emotionl attachment?


Also if you ever did consider doing this would that mean that the love you once had for you mate had either gone away or was almost gone?


I believe for most women they try to have affairs but at some point emotions get involved. If they are married most would tell you they are no longer in love with their husbands.

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Mon, 06-02-2008 - 4:29pm
lol... Oh no, that cup is going to follow me around forever! Where have you been all day?

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Registered: 02-17-2008
Mon, 06-02-2008 - 4:46pm
Thought that cup might giggle a few memories....

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Mon, 06-02-2008 - 6:12pm

Kat, in my opinion for sure, if the person knows upfront that the other one is seeing other people (or what ever the case) then that is fine. I think the main thing that stands out is the truth. I know that is very hypicritical of me, let me put it this way. When I entered my affair I knew that he was married and he knew the same about me. As our relationship grew we both understood (due to comunacation) that neither one of us was seeking anyone else. Now if he came to me and said I

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Registered: 02-17-2008
Mon, 06-02-2008 - 6:55pm

Lori,


Thanks for clarifying & explaining.

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Mon, 06-02-2008 - 8:06pm

You needn't have said anything at all. I appreciated your willingness to provide me with what

Mrs P

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Mon, 06-02-2008 - 8:11pm

No problem, Miz P..............but I did get just a mite irritated when I read your post

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Mon, 06-02-2008 - 8:17pm

Why did I irritate you?


I do apologize....it was not my intention to offend you.


That's not how I work.....













Mrs P

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Mon, 06-02-2008 - 8:25pm

lol You coulda fooled me.

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Mon, 06-02-2008 - 8:26pm

Lurking is no fun. It's better to be a part of the fun! We like when you chat with us. I am doing well, thank you. How is your dd feeling?

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Mon, 06-02-2008 - 8:28pm

Kat, please do not take offense to anything I said. I tried to state my opinion without sounding judgemental sometimes it is hard to communicate by writing.

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