Queston about steping out on mate

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Registered: 08-03-2003
Queston about steping out on mate
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Sat, 05-31-2008 - 12:48pm

For those of you have had an affair or would consider an affair this question is for you, Do you think you could have an affair that was just sexual with no emotions envolved?


If you had a person that you had sex with on a regular basis do you think you would develop an emotionl attachment?


Also if you ever did consider doing this would that mean that the love you once had for you mate had either gone away or was almost gone?


I believe for most women they try to have affairs but at some point emotions get involved. If they are married most would tell you they are no longer in love with their husbands.

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Mon, 06-02-2008 - 8:30pm

Muff, I am sorry if I came accros harsh. I didnt' realize the women knew upfront that you were talking to other women, Sorry!

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Mon, 06-02-2008 - 8:41pm
Lori --- you in no, way, shape or form offended me AT ALL...

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Mon, 06-02-2008 - 8:45pm
BL, there's way too much of me hanging out all over these boards!!!

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Mon, 06-02-2008 - 8:58pm

I am afraid I am a bit more

Mrs P

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Mon, 06-02-2008 - 9:05pm

"once again....I apologize...."


Enough apologies, already.

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Registered: 05-24-2008
Mon, 06-02-2008 - 11:55pm

And...the worst part is that for some sick reason people want to isolate an isolated person even more.

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Tue, 06-03-2008 - 1:18am
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Tue, 06-03-2008 - 7:15am

Kat, I find so many times I will read something on the board and then see another point of view, it doesnt' mean that I have changed mine but it helps me see a whole other side to it. I love this board and the people (who put up with me he he)

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Tue, 06-03-2008 - 7:21am
Raging, Now I understand your name. I am truely sorry for all you have and are going threw.
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Tue, 06-03-2008 - 7:33am

njmx3 thank you for the link I will go and look it up. The situation you described sounds a lot like mine. I have a hard time understanding (and it is just me) how 2 people can have a long time sex relationship with no emotions at all envolved. Is it possible or are they really fooling themselves?


I started out thinking "this is just sex" but as it has gone on for 7 months both of us has realized it is more. We havent' reached the point where we are deciding where to go from here. We are still at the stage of enjoying eachother.

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