Sex & Pain...help me understand

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Registered: 04-30-2008
Sex & Pain...help me understand
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Fri, 06-20-2008 - 7:51pm
For those of you that are into pain (giving or receiving), can you explain what is it about pain that turns you on?

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 8:45pm
Dominant male here. It's somewhat of a cliché, but one that contains more than a grain of truth: there's a very fine line between pleasure and pain. Sensation is sensation, and up to a certain level, it's all good. Pain releases endorphins into the body, which create a pleasurable sensation similar to a runner's high. Also, when the sensations (both pleasure and pain) are being turned up to '11' it's impossible to maintain any kind of false front in the face of that. You're stripped of all artifice or pretense, and your soul is laid bare before your lover as who you truly are. There simply is no greater level of intimacy than that. Vanilla sex simply cannot compare.


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Registered: 04-30-2008
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 8:59pm
Thanks. It should be interesting to see a broad spectrum of answers. I appreciate you responding so soon.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-28-2006
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 9:13pm
I'm sure Lothiriel and Sisterhoney will be able to give you good perspectives from the submissive side also.


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Registered: 03-17-2008
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 9:40pm
Wow... nicely said Steve

 



  


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Registered: 02-28-2006
Fri, 06-20-2008 - 9:43pm
Thanks Galatea.


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Registered: 09-20-2007
Sat, 06-21-2008 - 2:13am
I'm a pain slut and I love pain. I have to have pain to fully enjoy sex with Master. My brain is hardwired to receive pain as pleasure. Master can flog me to orgasm and I'm in heaven then. Pain is something that I need and want.
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Registered: 03-12-2006
Sat, 06-21-2008 - 3:34am

I also like sex and pain, the two somehow go together for me.

 

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Registered: 05-24-2008
Sat, 06-21-2008 - 9:56pm
I saw in another thread that you mentioned "age play" - sorry to go off topic here - but I couldnt find the thread where I read this.
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Registered: 09-20-2007
Sat, 06-21-2008 - 10:47pm
Age play is when one partner takes on a role of a younger person, usually a young child or a teenager. This is roleplaying that is between two consenting adults. It is never between an adult and a child. Some popular roles are teacher and naughty schoolboy/girl, Daddy/baby girl, Mommy/baby boy, etc. Master and I mostly do Daddy/baby girl, where I dress and act the part of a girl. There are what are known as Daddy Doms, where the sub calls the Dom "Daddy" instead of "Master." I only call Him "Daddy" during O/our roleplaying sessions.
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Registered: 09-20-2007
Sun, 06-22-2008 - 2:20am

All the sites I have on age play are BDSM sites that would violate iVillage's TOS and you'd have to navigate through the pages to find it. So I'm giving you the page on it from Wikipedia that might explain it well enough:


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ageplay

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