Sex toys

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Registered: 06-23-2011
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Mon, 07-11-2011 - 10:28am

my wife I want to spice things up in the bedroom and I would like to know what is a good toy for beginners.

Thanks



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Registered: 04-02-2008
In reply to: aquario37
Mon, 07-11-2011 - 10:48am
My first "toy" was a simple vibrator. You can use it to experiment with sensation anywhere on the body. There's also alot of educational material available to help you get started. If you aren't comfortable shopping locally, there's tons of websites you can order from, such as Adam and Eve. Good luck on your adventure. ;)
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Registered: 05-23-2011
In reply to: aquario37
Mon, 07-11-2011 - 11:33am

Hi!

I would go with something simple as well. Maybe something that some women seem to

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2006
In reply to: aquario37
Mon, 07-11-2011 - 9:50pm
Hi aquario!

I think it all depends on what you want to achieve with the toys. Do you want stimulation? Penetration? Fun?

You can play around with handcuffs and edible panties. You can fool around with costumes, masks, etc. for playfulness.

Personally I think vibrators are a good starting point ... and vibrating cock rings are nice as well. The reason I like these products is the ease in which you can both use them on and with each each other.

Have you looked at any of the website that sell toys ... to gauge her interest?

Mrs P

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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: aquario37
Tue, 07-12-2011 - 4:15pm

Hi there. I would suggest a simple vibrator. Is there an adult store in your area? The two of you could go there together. The folks there are usually extremely nice and very helpful.



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Registered: 01-04-2007
In reply to: aquario37
Thu, 07-14-2011 - 1:18pm

This is probably not what you are looking for but if you are ordering toys take a look at a feather duster and honey dust.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-23-2011
In reply to: aquario37
Sat, 07-16-2011 - 10:24am

Thanks everyone for the advice. We looked online and there way to many options. It is making hard to decide what to get. I think we will go with a vibrator. I gone to the local store but to expensive. We are looking for something that is 100% silicone.

Have fun everyone!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2006
In reply to: aquario37
Mon, 07-18-2011 - 8:45am
Thanks for the update aquario!

Happy shopping! Make sure you come back and tell us how your purchase works out for you!

Mrs P

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Registered: 10-10-2010
In reply to: aquario37
Thu, 07-21-2011 - 2:10am

Just bought one for DW.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-23-2011
In reply to: aquario37
Fri, 07-22-2011 - 9:44pm

Well,

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2006
In reply to: aquario37
Fri, 07-22-2011 - 10:53pm
Give it time aquario.

The first time Mr P and I used one I was not comfortable. I was not relaxed. Your wife is right ... it doesn't feel like a penis....and we're not used to the feel of another object inside of us so it takes a bit of practice to get comfortable sometimes.

It's fine if you are more excited. Have you communicated your thoughts to her?

Mrs P

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