Sexual Goals

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Sexual Goals
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Mon, 06-27-2011 - 8:45pm

Have you ever set any sexual goals for yourself?

What is/was the goal?

Did you reach this goal?

What do you think is a good example of a sexual goal to set?

Mrs P

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Registered: 01-22-2008
In reply to: mrspe
Mon, 06-27-2011 - 11:05pm

Have you ever set any sexual goals for yourself? Yes

What is/was the goal?

Born to Live.

 

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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: mrspe
Tue, 06-28-2011 - 8:41am

Nope. I've never done this.



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Registered: 05-04-2007
In reply to: mrspe
Tue, 06-28-2011 - 9:39am

Have you ever set any sexual goals for yourself? Sure

What is/was the goal? Before I'd had any of the seks, I figured 10 would be a good "number" to reach before "settling down"

Good distraction frees us from emotional pain, bad distraction gives you a mouth full of whizz. ~~~ Guru Tugginmypudha
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Registered: 04-26-2011
In reply to: mrspe
Tue, 06-28-2011 - 11:34am
mrspe wrote:

Have you ever set any sexual goals for yourself? Yes

What is/was the goal? It is to be able to "outlast" the missus during vaginal intercourse

Did you reach this goal? Not yet

What do you think is a good example of a sexual goal to set? The most basic is to please her, and I also find it the most worthwhile. After that, to be sure to be open and sharing.

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Registered: 06-21-2011
In reply to: mrspe
Tue, 06-28-2011 - 12:42pm

Yes, I've sat sexual goals

Yes, I reached them

My sexual goal was 2 women at once. I was younger and full of hormones.

A good sexual goal would be to open up and experiment more often. If you don't wear lingerie, when incorporate it. If you don't like but one position, try another. If you won't give/receive oral sex, then change. If you are with your spouse, then what is the hang-up? I understand real life isn't always porno-style sex and not every sexual encounter will have stockings and facials and anal sex all wrapped in one. Maybe once a month expand your arsenal.

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Registered: 05-23-2011
In reply to: mrspe
Tue, 06-28-2011 - 4:50pm

Hi mrspe!

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Registered: 11-30-2010
In reply to: mrspe
Wed, 06-29-2011 - 10:50am

Have you ever set any sexual goals for yourself?

Tons.

What is/was the goal?

1. Well my first one was for my gf and I to be each others' "firsts"

2. More recently, to get comfortable with my sexual thoughts and fantasies and in expressing them within my relationship.

Did you reach this goal?

1. Not so much.

2. I think this one is coming along quite nicely. :)

What do you think is a good example of a sexual goal to set?

To learn a new technique to pleasure one's partner, such as tantric techniques or oral sex (if one has never tried it)

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Registered: 04-02-2008
In reply to: mrspe
Wed, 06-29-2011 - 1:27pm

Have you ever set any sexual goals for yourself?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-15-2006
In reply to: mrspe
Wed, 06-29-2011 - 10:51pm
crazy.... dream the impossible!

Mrs P

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Registered: 10-15-2006
In reply to: mrspe
Wed, 06-29-2011 - 10:51pm
I never did until I came "here".
;)

Mrs P

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