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Sat, 09-06-2008 - 2:54pm

What is the kinkiest fantasy you've ever shared with your SO? What was their reaction?

Mine:
After watching a porn years ago, it had a scene of double penetration. i told her in the heat of the moment, that I would love to be on bottom with someone entering her anally, to see her response to being completely filled and feel someone else sliding against me one thin sheath away. Needless to say her reaction was orgasm within about 2 seconds! Nothing we'd ever actually do, just a fantasy.

Also, what is the kinkiest fantasy that you'd never tell your SO?

Mine:
For some reason, orally pleasing her after I've finished sounds incredibly erotic to me. She would probably freak out, thinking that's disgusting.

Can't wait to hear others!!!!

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Sat, 09-06-2008 - 5:48pm

My wife and I have shared many fantasies and lived out most of them.

The wildest one? I would say a FFM. When I first mentioned it she kind of blew it off. We talked about it some more and she said she did have some fantasies about women. She was pretty inexperienced when we met, not uptight but just not the kind of girl to just sleep around. As she has become more comfortable with her sexuality and confident she has become more open to trying it. She has never been with a woman but has kissed two Gf's, one I joined in on. It's something we would both like to do but finding the right girl to invite to join us is tough.




Edited 9/6/2008 6:33 pm ET by boosfla
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Sat, 09-06-2008 - 11:54pm

"What is the kinkiest fantasy you've ever shared with your SO?"


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Sun, 09-07-2008 - 7:43pm

What is the kinkiest fantasy you've ever shared with your SO? What was their reaction?


That I wanted to have a mfm with him and his best friend.

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Registered: 02-17-2008
Sun, 09-07-2008 - 9:44pm
Well we were discussing our 25th wedding anniversary and fantisies one night and agreed that we'd rather grant each other our top fantasies instead of giving each other more stuff....

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Mon, 09-08-2008 - 10:55am

One I've shared:


Wanting a BDSM relationship...and here we are all these years later in one ~smile~


One I haven't shared:


Wanting to be dominated by 2 men at once...

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Mon, 09-08-2008 - 11:13am
Morning L. Do you think you'd ever tell dh that fantasy?

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Mon, 09-08-2008 - 11:35am
I really want to tell him....I just don't know how he'd react. Though the other weekend his best friend was over and fell asleep on our couch while we were watching a movie. DH played with me for the better part of an hour while his friend layed there tossing and turning, I'm pretty sure he woke up halfway through out little escapade, so there might be a glint of hope in that...only time will tell....

Lothiriel


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Mon, 09-08-2008 - 1:51pm
Why not just tell him that it's a fantasy. Something that you would never want to happen. See what he says. Or ask him what one of his fantasies are...

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Mon, 09-08-2008 - 2:13pm
He's not good at sharing....he claims his only fantasy is anal sex, and we endulged in that for the first time years ago, and has become part of our normal play...so now when I ask, he claims not to have fantasies lol..go figure...he's quite a jealous man, always has been, quite possessive of me..and I guess my fear is, it would be a blow to his ego, when thats not it at all...

Lothiriel


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Tue, 09-09-2008 - 10:34pm

What is the kinkiest fantasy you've ever shared with your SO? What was their reaction.


I have expressed several, and her usual reply is


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