a slight shift of balance...

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Registered: 04-15-2008
a slight shift of balance...
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Mon, 05-05-2008 - 11:35am

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Registered: 11-13-2006
Mon, 05-05-2008 - 12:19pm

Thank you for sharing your story....... I am so happy that your loneliness has abated and you are able to move forward.

I guess there is always hope for a happy ending.

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Registered: 04-15-2008
Mon, 05-05-2008 - 12:30pm

thank you for you nice words.. and there is always hope..

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Mon, 05-05-2008 - 7:55pm

Hi and welcome soarnangels. Nice to meet you. Will you please fill in your profile so we can know something about you? Thanks a million. Stick around, jump in anytime and have fun. The people here are wonderful.


Thank you for sharing this story. I am so happy that you were able to find happiness a second time.

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Registered: 09-20-2007
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 1:28am

I know where you are coming from. I was married once before for 10 miserable years. My first husband was an alcoholic/drug addict and was verbally, emotionally and physically abusive towards me. I was finally able to break free after he attempted to murder me.


After my divorce I was completely numb. During the last year of my marriage I had gone back to school at the age of 35. I was surrounded by thousands of men every day at the university, but I didn't want anything to do with them. I had built a wall around myself, my heart and my emotions and had no intentions of dating anyone. Two years after my divorce a friend of mine convinced me to go online into the chat rooms, to give me something else to do other than go to classes and go to work. I humored him, though I didn't think anything would come out of it.


By the end of the year I had met my Master and everything changed. I was very skeptical about meeting people online and I thought there was no way I'd ever fall in love with someone whom I hadn't met face to face. W/we chatted for a year online, sent each other e-mail and snail mail and talked on the phone. He came to visit me over Christmas break, stayed until after New Year's and went back to His home in MI (I was in TN). He came back at the end of January 2000 and W/we got married 10 months later in October 2000. W/we have known each other now for 9 1/2 years and have been married for 7 1/2 years.


So I agree with you completely that it is possible to find love and happiness the second time around. I never thought that I would ever fall in love again much less get married again. But love found me when I wasn't actively looking for it. And I have never looked back.

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Registered: 04-15-2008
Tue, 05-06-2008 - 8:17am

hello my dear...


and yes isnt life amazing???