So That's What Sex is Like!

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So That's What Sex is Like!
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Sun, 02-15-2009 - 2:27am

As some of you know, I have to live with several chronic illnesses. These illnesses often take a major toll on my sex life. Master and I had sex twice since September. Yes, I've given Him BJs and HJs and have served Him to the best of my ability as His sub. But as for bondage, roleplaying, flogging----all the requirements that I need for good sex----twice in 5 months. I'm extremely lucky to be with the most understanding man in the world. He doesn't make impossible demands of me when my illnesses won't allow me to fully participate in sex.


W/we learned to take advantage of the times when I do feel good. For example, I always get spankings for my birthday. But on my birthday recently I was sick in bed. And because I was sick I also didn't get any birthday cake or go out to dinner. So since W/we weren't sure how I'd feel on Valentine's Day, when I was feeling better earlier this week W/we went out to dinner for a belated birthday/early Valentine's Day dinner. I still wasn't well enough for sex or my spankings, but that changed.


Friday night W/we finally planned for my spankings, though W/we actually started after midnight, so I got them on Valentine's Day. 49 lashes from the flogger (Master always gives me an extra lash "to grow on.")! My butt was really stinging and burning after that, because it had been so long since I was flogged. Gods, I missed it so much! And then W/we had sex. Tie me down, blindfold me, flog me some more sex. And it didn't end there. W/we were going at it again at 5am. So Saturday was definitely a wonderful Valentine's Day for me and Master! Now if I can just stay healthy enough to have some more.....

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Sun, 02-15-2009 - 3:18am
Oh sisterhoney!
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Sun, 02-15-2009 - 9:49am
I'm so happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Sun, 02-15-2009 - 11:06am

Now if I can just stay healthy enough to have some more.....


I hope so as well...........


I think a lot of us are wishing that for you....


(smiling)

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Sun, 02-15-2009 - 8:27pm
Yay... I am so happy to hear that you got to celebrate, and that you're feeling better.



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Registered: 03-25-2009
Fri, 03-27-2009 - 3:51pm
I'm so happy for you,I have a long list of fantasies that I want to do but nobody to do them with, so I'm missing out on a lot of fun. I would give anything to find somebody to help me fulfill my fantasies
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Fri, 03-27-2009 - 7:33pm
I agree that it can be very difficult to find the right partner. I didn't find Master until I was almost 40. I'd been in strictly vanilla relationships up until then and I was not a happy nor a fulfilled woman. The one way that I was able to find what and who I needed was go online. I always thought an online relationship could not possibly work, but I'm living proff that it can.
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Fri, 03-27-2009 - 8:09pm

I would give anything to find somebody to help me fulfill my fantasies


I honestly think that the key to having the kind of life that allows for fantasy fulfilled and wants and needs met.... no matter what they might entail....lies in finding a partner and developing a deep seated friendship first. That strong foundation allows for unparalleled trust and exploration of whatever wants and needs the two of you can dream up.


There has to be something concrete there to build on.

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Registered: 04-20-2008
Fri, 03-27-2009 - 8:29pm

We're glad to hear that you're feeling better!!


D n J

"When it's going good,keep it going!"


"Live today like there's no tomorrow!"


"Take can't and quit out of your dictionary until you give it 110%. There's no shame in failing. The shame is not trying."


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Sat, 03-28-2009 - 11:45am
What online site did you go to, I'm really interested in this
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Sat, 03-28-2009 - 12:58pm
Master and I met in the chatrooms on Yahoo Chat. Unfortunately, Yahoo has been eliminating many of its chatrooms and the adult rooms that W/we used to visit are no longer there. All of the sites that I recommend to people are the BDSM ones, since those are the ones that I'm most familiar with. I don't know if that is something that you are interested in or not.

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