Soft Swinging

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Registered: 09-19-2011
Soft Swinging
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Sun, 11-13-2011 - 5:11pm
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Registered: 05-28-2003
Mon, 11-14-2011 - 7:08am
Dannie1348 wrote:
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Registered: 01-03-2007
Mon, 11-14-2011 - 10:33am

My DW and I have had sex in a our hot tub while another couple was in there having sex as well. It was extremely sexy!!

It was a totally unplanned thing that just happened, so I'm not going to be any help about finding another couple. There were no ground rules to discuss, since it was spur of the moment, but I will say that there was never any attempt by anyone to involve the other couple.

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Mon, 11-14-2011 - 9:40pm
Dannie1348 wrote:

Mrs P

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Registered: 04-26-2011
Tue, 11-15-2011 - 11:56am
I have this fantasy, but I don't think the missus does. It seems the most harmless, and the most likely thing to find a set of friends to do so. I've had two of my wife's husbands "jokingly" suggest swining, one including the hot tub scenario.. So I think the desire for it is out there.

I would think a two bed hotel room would be ideal for it.. meeting ahead of time in person to connect if you didn't know someone. Lay out ahead of time, no recordings, no touching, closest allowed viewing distance..

I'd want the first time to be more simultaneous, but afterwords, taking turns watching stuff happen would be fun..
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Registered: 12-25-2006
Tue, 11-15-2011 - 12:02pm

My best advice is to google 'swingers boards' then look for someone in your area who's into soft swinging.