Spicing things up in the bedroom

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Spicing things up in the bedroom
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Wed, 04-10-2013 - 11:19am

If your lover wanted to spice things up, what would you be willing to do and what you not be willing to do?

Would you be willing to have a threesome?  If not, would you let him or her watch sex with someone else?  If not, would you be willing to have someone else watch you having sex with your lover?  

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Registered: 05-22-2013
Thu, 05-23-2013 - 11:19am

I'm afraid I'll have to disagree with the others on this one - but I respect everyone's opinion!   :)

My wife and I recently (several weeks ago) had our first threesome, and we both loved it! We actually plan to do it again, and to even try other things. It has definitely spiced things up - even when it's just the two of us.

I do, however, understand that this isn't for everyone! I believe it takes a special kind of relationship with your significant other for something like this to work.

I'd be happy to talk about it some more if you want to send me a PM. I'm pretty new here.

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Registered: 01-03-2013
Mon, 04-22-2013 - 6:55pm

Where do I even begin? It can be role-playign fantasies, sex in wild places, trying out new positions, and so many more ideas!

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Registered: 08-02-2004
Thu, 04-18-2013 - 12:17pm
How do you like to be adventurous?
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Registered: 01-03-2013
Wed, 04-17-2013 - 3:08pm

Not judging anyone who does involve other people in their sex life, but I would strongly advise against it. As a fantasy it can be fun but in reality, in almost every relationship, it can complicate things even to the point of destroying the relationship. Better keep the sex life between the couple without involving anyone else (not to participate and not to watch).

But as for spicing things up in the bedroom, there are plenty of ways to do that. There are many erotic role playing fantasies and many other creative ideas to spice things up in the bedroom.

You are more than welcome to contact me for more info.

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Registered: 04-17-2013
Wed, 04-17-2013 - 12:47am

Yeah, I have to agree with everyone else. 

I don't think I could ever have a threesome or even have other people watching my boyfriend and I having sex. 

But if I wanted to spice things up in the bedroom... I would so do roleplay! and do some new stuff in the bedroom :)) 

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Registered: 04-06-2012
Wed, 04-10-2013 - 5:15pm

I'd like to think I'm adventurous in the bedroom, but bringing in another person just isn't something I have an interest in.  I'm sure my guy would feel differently, he'd probably enjoy that.