In the Spotlight - Lothieriel
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In the Spotlight - Lothieriel
| Mon, 02-25-2008 - 7:25am |
Okay...... I will start this off.
1 .When did you discover the fact that pain turned you on?
2. How many men have you submitted to?
3. Is it true that pain is pleasure and pleasure is pain?
4. Have you ever been tied to a tree? ( I seem to recall that is a fantasy of yours)
5. Has your husband ever looked at you and said....... "NO way am I doing THAT to you!"





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1) Please as best as you can explain to me the type of religion you follow, and how you came about to choose that one? It is a polytheistc pagan religion. Though we're not an earth based religion like most pagan paths. Our focus is on people, family and the ancestors. I discussed in another answer on this thread the more technical aspects of my practice which involve 9 virtues we live by and the fact that our gods are no immortal beings we are here to please. But rather they are our kin, and walk amoungst us, they are there to help us in times of need and to teach us lessons about the honorable way to live life. I kind of stumbled across the religion when I was about 16, and the teachings and morals associated with is were ones that i had already been following most of my life. I decided at about 10 years old that Christianity didn't work for me, it didn't make sense to me. In a way I kind of feel like this path chose me and not the other way around.
2)Choose one thing in your life right now that makes you smile the most? My relationship with my husband, son and my friends, they are my family
3) What is the funniest dream you ever had? Funniest...hmmm..thats a tough on, I dream vividly, and often, but I'm not sure how many of my dreams are funny...might have to get back to you
4) How many pairs of shoes do you own? This is embarassing...over 150, I have a serious problem
5) Do you like to garden in the summer? Not really, it's way too hot here in the summer and my skin is very sesitive to the sun, so I try not to go out too much
6) Have you ever gone tobogganing? Yes, I love wintertime activities
7) When your driving your car and someone cuts you off, what gesture would you most likely use? I usually curse and give them a nice view of my middle finger lol
Lothiriel
What’s one of your worst habits? I curse too much, but luckily my little boy has learned that there are some words he's just not allowed to say lol
What are you wearing today which is most reflective of who you are and how does it reflect you? Let's see, today I'm wearing a pair of black knee high boots that have buckles at the ankles. They add a little rock and roll element to my boring work clothes
Choose a unique item from your wallet and explain why you carry it around. I have a two dollar bill DH gave to me on our 3rd date, he had gotten it at a state fair. It reminds me of when we first got together.
Share one of your most embarrassing moments. Ok, I was up in the Canadian Rocky mountains and we had rented a cabin in Jasper National Park. We'd been driving from Calgary and I had to pee really, really bad. So we got into our room and I ran for the bathroom, well there was a floor to celing mirror just opposite the bathroom door, and the damn thing was so clean it reflected the door perfectly, so I ran right into the thing and bounced back and hit the back of my head on the wall. It was mortifying. This was nearly 10 years ago, I have yet to live it down. lol
If you were given a million dollars and 24 hours to spend it in (no depositing it in the bank or investing it), what would you buy? I'd pay off my car and buy a new house, and I'd probably get some new ink while I had the cash too ;)
Lothiriel
Is there anything in terms of sex that you would consider "out of bounds"? Yes, I do have hard limits. I'm not interested in golden showers or similar activities, I see nothing sexual about it. I'm sure there are other things, my mind is just drawing a blank at the moment.
Do you have any desire to sometimes be the dominant one? No, not really. Being dominant in bed just isn't a turn on for me, I don't want to see the man I am with in a vulnerable and weak state. It takes away my ability to see him as the strong, demanding creature that dominates me.
Do you plan on getting tattoos onyour legs? I might, I haven't decided yet. I'd like to get one on the tops of my feet. But I plan to finish my back piece and afte that I have plans to tattoo the sides of my ribs..thats going to hurt lol
Lothiriel
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FTR-I love your honesty.
You mentioned that DH probably wouldn't like another man dominating you. What about another woman and DH dominating you? (Both your thoughts on it and DH's).
What about an MFM or FMF without domination being involved?
Any chance you'll chicken out on the rib tatoos because of the pain they will cause?
You mentioned that DH probably wouldn't like another man dominating you. What about another woman and DH dominating you? (Both your thoughts on it and DH's). Dh wouldn't mind bringing another woman into the equation (a bit of a double standard, but hey, what are you gonna do?). I'm not totally against it, but I don't think I'd want her to dominate me. The thought of a woman in that position of power over me is not as big a turn on as a man being in that position.
What about an MFM or FMF without domination being involved? Like I said, DH would be happy to invite another woman into our bedroom, but not a man. He's just not into that.
Any chance you'll chicken out on the rib tatoos because of the pain they will cause? Not a chance ~wicked grin~ The pain is part of the reason to get a tattoo in the first place. If they didn't hurt, they wouldn't mean as much.
Lothiriel
ok time for me to chime in
How are you this morning?
if you were only able to fantasize about one particular scenario that you have not experienced, what would it be?
if knowing that by fantasizing about the above scenario would make it that it would never happen would that change your answer?
Do you think that based on your heritage, you were drawn to your religion and it was presented to you as a right to truly learn of you ancestors and where you came from?
Do you do your own brewing?
if you had to pick
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