Suggestions requested

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Suggestions requested
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Tue, 03-08-2005 - 11:54pm

I have an overnight "encounter" planned soon and wanted all of your opinions of what types of "extra necessities" (massage oil, toys) I should take. I'm open for all suggestions and will purchase what I feel is appropriate for this date.

This probably won't be a romantic mushy evening, more like down and dirty if I have my way :o)

Don't hold back...list all the fun things you have tried, liked, can't do without.

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Registered: 02-12-2005
Wed, 03-09-2005 - 2:07am
Here's my suggestions for your encounter. First, get lots and lots of scented pillar candles. Not overpowering, but a nice, soft scent, like vanilla or peach. Something to make it memorable. To further amp things up, get some really sexy incense and burn it with the candles to give the room a heady air.
To make the experience playful, trot out a bowl of fruit, a can of whipped cream (REAL whipped cream), a bottle of chocolate syrup, and take turns making a fruit salad on your bodies. Have your lover cover your breasts and stomach with slices of peach, mango, kiwi and strawberries, for instance, then drizzle chocolate syrup over you before dotting you with whipped cream. Then let him eat the "salad" off of you...this will lead to hotter, stickier things...hehehehehhhhhhhhh... :P~~~ Afterward, you can do the same to him.
Also, invest in several silk scarves for light bondage play. Use one scarf for a blindfold, and the other two to gently tie his wrists to the bedposts. This'll put him on sexual autopilot as you have your way with him; later, he can do the same to you.
Just a few suggestions...
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 03-10-2005 - 12:43am

  • It seems obvious, but I'm the kind of person who always forgets to pack the obvious.

 

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Registered: 10-28-2004
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 11:54am
Why don't you take your Husband with you? It is always fun to shop for these things together!!!
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Registered: 12-28-2004
Fri, 03-11-2005 - 6:30pm

:)

Edited 3/12/2005 7:12 am ET ET by duchesswantsitall




Edited 3/13/2005 7:13 am ET ET by duchesswantsitall
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Registered: 10-28-2004
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 12:09am
Oh, excuse me, I just noticed from your profile you had a husband and assumed - my bad.
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Registered: 12-28-2004
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 7:13am
It's ok, and you're idea is still great, I'll keep it in mind. Thanks
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Registered: 05-04-2003
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:27pm
Since your encounter sounds extramarital I am going to go with the practical and suggest BIRTH CONTROL.

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Registered: 10-28-2004
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 11:31am

I have to agree with the cl, and hopefully condoms are used, though that may have a dampening effect on the "down and dirty." You wouldn't want to bring something home like Herpes - "the gift that keeps on giving," to your dear hubby and you want to be around to watch your child grow.

Believe me, duchess, you do not want "it all."

I no longer have fantasies........

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 12:14pm
I'm sorry if I upset anyone with my previous comment. We all are adults and can make our own choices, I hope I haven't offended anyone too much. Sorry again
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Registered: 01-17-2005
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 7:46am
I just read your idea and it got me ramped up. Heaven forbid what it will do to him. Don't forget a banana though....that can be lots of fun. Especially if he didn't know about it. My wife did that to me one night and not only did she have a great orgasm...I got fed...hahahaha. Have a great day.