swing fantasy

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Registered: 09-27-2008
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Sat, 09-27-2008 - 9:03pm

Hello all, I am new to the board, and I had a question for all of you.


My wife and I know we want to have a 3sum, or 4sum with another couple. We have been on the swinger sites, we have set up a few meetings, yet, we still have not done it. Do any of you have any experience with this? We would like another man (not for me, but for her, I am 100% heterosexual),do you think we could just go to some club some night, and find a guy to take back to our hotel room? Has anyone on this board done just that?


Has anyone ever done this? What was the outcome, etc.


Thank you all, ahead of time, for your input!

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Registered: 08-08-2005
In reply to: swing4fun
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 9:52am
just going to a club and picking someone up in my opinion is sleezy.....there are many swing sights...try sls .... swingers life style.com.....you can track people in your area, chat, see if you click...we met a great guy on there and have been meeting up w/him for over a year.
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Registered: 09-25-2008
In reply to: swing4fun
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 9:54am

Ahhh the Golden Bananna.....I live about 15 minutes from that place.......only went there once prob 12 years ago.....I should try it again as I hear it's pretty nice since it was refurbished.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: swing4fun
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 11:02am

Wow, you're so close..... Back many years ago, Monday nights was when the men stripped.... Those were fun times... I know the Cabaret is still there, but is the Squire?


Do you think dw will ever go with you? Have you asked her?

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Registered: 09-25-2008
In reply to: swing4fun
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 2:17pm

I remember the Monday night male stripper thing...I always wished my DW (then DG) would go so she'd get all horny and come home and jump my bones!

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In reply to: swing4fun
Thu, 10-02-2008 - 3:55pm

Mmmm, yeah, way back then the men did take everything off.... Although after the first time I went, I had more fun sitting at the bar and just watching everyone......


No, I've never gone to watch women with a man. Would dw have to worry about running into someone at the Squire? Isn't that the place in Revere?

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Registered: 09-25-2008
In reply to: swing4fun
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 2:26pm

I thought that was true about the "bare bananna" lol


If I recall the stories, the women went NUTS at those shows...including touching etc....At a strip club like the Squire (yes in Revere and still open) you don't touch lest you get yuor a$$ kicked.

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In reply to: swing4fun
Fri, 10-03-2008 - 3:28pm

Yeah, some of the women were nuts. Not me, of course. I was a shy, little thing way back then...


Are there any places in southern New Hampshire that you could take her? How about a night away down in Rhode Island?

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