Threesomes

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Registered: 08-02-2011
Threesomes
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Tue, 08-02-2011 - 1:49pm

My wife and I are both in our early 40s and have talked about threesomes as part of a fantasy...and when we are having sex...the talk of it really gets us going.

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Registered: 09-08-2008
Wed, 08-03-2011 - 12:11pm
Trust is the most important issue, have lots of discussion as to what you will do and what you won't do. It will be her choice of the male partner, not yours. It can be very exciting, be sure to have fun.
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Registered: 10-15-2006
Thu, 08-04-2011 - 9:25pm
Hi twilightwriter!

I'm sure some others will come along and add some advice to the thread.

I think it's important for you and your wife to consider what happens "after" the threesome. Often, a couple gets wrapped up in getting there and they don't consider the consequences and ask each other if the relationship between you will suffer as a result. Not that it's all doom and gloom but you do have to think about what comes "after".

Good luck!
;)

Mrs P

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Registered: 05-09-2011
Thu, 08-04-2011 - 9:45pm

I've had three of them over my lifetime and they were awesome but I wasn't married.

Because you're a married couple I strongly suggest you forget about it.

DD

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Registered: 09-01-2007
Fri, 08-05-2011 - 8:28pm

I'd say talk about it and decide who you both want and decide who will do what and think about what will happen after every thing is done, I've never had one but would be interested in doing a three some with my wife and another person mmf

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Registered: 10-10-2010
Sun, 08-07-2011 - 2:33am

I don't think I could go threeway.

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Registered: 08-02-2011
Thu, 08-11-2011 - 10:07pm

Thank you all.

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Fri, 08-12-2011 - 10:08pm
I wish you the best of luck!
Please do come back with updates

Mrs P

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Registered: 08-07-2011
Sat, 08-13-2011 - 6:29pm
I have had a few but like previous posts, they were from before I was married. One of those times was with my BF and my BFF and I gotta tell you, I was jealous during and jealous after. I prefer to have them with people that don't mean anything to me emotionally.
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Registered: 10-26-2006
Fri, 08-26-2011 - 2:54pm

Interesting I was just looking this up. After watching True Blood the other night, when Sookie had a fantasy with Bill and Eric and it looked like it was turning into a 3some.

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Registered: 05-11-2003
Fri, 08-26-2011 - 3:22pm

DH and I have had many over the years, and I have had male and female sexual partners without DH that he knew about but didn't join with me.

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