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Want to spice it up...
| Mon, 04-14-2008 - 2:00pm |
I am married for nearly 7 years. been with my hubby as a couple for almost 11 years and have been great friends with him for about 19 or 20 years. We have great sex, most of the time. Since our twin daughters were born it seems he is less interested. Makes me feel unattractive when the commercial on t.v. has his attention and I am laying on the bed ready to go.
I guess what I am getting at is, what can I do to spice things up. He is very old fashioned and doesn't go for porn or anything like that. I could use some perspective on the subject. Maybe it's just a lull in our otherwise perfect marriage.
IDK...
Hope to hear from you soon!
Erin

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Sounds like it's time for you to go into aggressive and seduction mode. Shear and or mesh nightwear might help. If he showers at night,wait until he's in it and join him. Forget the wash cloths and use your fingertips for cleaning and arousing. A couples worst enemy is the TV. Speaking for myself, I always have a blank tape in the recorder ready to go. When the bedroom tv is on and a commercial is on go oral on him. If that doesn't put him in the mood nothing will. You might want to try oral about an hour before he has to get up for work. Around the house wear a blouse low cut or buttoned in the front with 3buttons undone and skirt.
Hope to hear from you soon!
Hope to hear from you soon!
Well, life happens... We have twin daughters that are turning 2 in June. (this has never been an issue) He has always been very good when he wants to. Maybe you could say that the newly wed phase is finally over.
Don't give up on the Aggressive/Seduction thing. If you haven't already done it,try the striptease/dance thing.
Don't develop the mindset that your sexlife dwindles because of years married. I was married for 36 years to my high school sweatheart. In spite of having five children we always made the time. Actually our sex life kept us together five years longer then we should have been. In the end it was just a bandaid.
Hope to hear from you soon!
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