Warm Chocolate Pouring Over a Bald Head

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Registered: 02-13-2006
Warm Chocolate Pouring Over a Bald Head
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Fri, 12-23-2011 - 10:46am

Ok...well if all goes well..in February I might FINALLY be able to live out this fantasy that I have had with my friend whom I've had a friends with benefits relationship with off and on and whom I had told last year in December that I was in love with him.Well obviously since that time...(because he thought that I was just infatuated with him)I haven't had the opprtunity to do this with him.I have even told him my fantasy..he laughs.I think that he would really enjoy it.Anyways I was thinking about how I could possibly pull this off and then it occured to me...well with me FINALLY getting back on my feet what with job woes..I thought that I would treat myself to a little getaway in a nice hotel on my birthday.The getaway would only be in my town...not going anywhere out of town.THEN I thought..this would be the perfect time to invite him over.You see..we also share the same birthday so I figured we could enjoy the rest of our evening dipping each other in chocolate.Now of course I thought about well what if he cant come to the hotel....well if it doesn't pan out then at least I would have still treated myself on my birthday so I feel that it's a win/win situation!! :)

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 12-23-2011 - 11:14am

Sounds good to me. Good luck. Why not just ask him what weekend would be good? He doesn't need to know what yu have planned, until he gets there.



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Registered: 10-15-2006
Mon, 12-26-2011 - 10:19pm
Hi honestgirl...

Perhaps if you planned it all out he might be receptive to joining you!

Mrs P

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Registered: 04-26-2011
Tue, 12-27-2011 - 9:45am
I have to admit.. an email along the lines of " I was planning a weekend in a hotel room with some warmed chocolate and a fondue pot and the first thing I thought of was you. Do you have any free weekends this Feb?" I think I'd respond favorably..

Please let us know how it goes, and no matter what, enjoy your birthday ;)