What to do

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Registered: 03-06-2005
What to do
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Sun, 03-06-2005 - 5:35pm
What should i do
My stepson isnt much younger than me and his friends are all really nice kids
i spend lots of time playing video games and stuff with them
But one of his friends has started making comments that have been turning
me on. I'm starting to fantasie?
what shall i do
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Registered: 03-06-2005
In reply to: so_retch
Sun, 03-06-2005 - 5:45pm

Any one???

I mean my spouse is in jail and my stepson and i dont wanna see him again adn i'm going on with other guys

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Registered: 05-04-2003
In reply to: so_retch
Sun, 03-06-2005 - 5:59pm

Welcome to the board so-retch!!


First of all I am not an advocate for extramarital affairs, so regardless of your DH being in prison, until you are divorced my advice will always be NOT TO ACT on your fantasies.


That being said, a fantasy kept a fantasy is well.. just that a fantasy. No one can control your personal thoughts of get mad or angry about them. However, I would be careful who you tell them to and what you do about them. Is this friend of your stepson of age? How would your stepson feel about you starting something with his friend?


Some things are better never becoming reality.


Jennie

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Registered: 03-06-2005
In reply to: so_retch
Sun, 03-06-2005 - 6:26pm

Thanks

I mean the guys laugh at me when i try to be serious
and i love having a good relationship with them