What do you fantasize?

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What do you fantasize?
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Wed, 05-01-2013 - 3:48pm

What are your fantasies?  Do you typically play with yourself when you do?  

I'll go first.  I have fantasies of threesomes and sometimes of my wife bending over in front of me and doing it doggie style.  Sometimes I like my fantasies enough to take things in my hands.  

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Sun, 05-05-2013 - 8:39am

I like to fantasize about threesomes as well.  Also about having my hubby tie me up and have his way with me.  Typically, I am thinking about these scenarios while we are busy playing.

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Mon, 05-06-2013 - 10:01am

My fantasies are usually daydreams. They start out with me imagining someone I see naked, and then what they might be like in bed, and it goes from there. I usually get hard, but don't do anything about it. Every once in a while I will though

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Mon, 05-06-2013 - 10:03pm

Mine is about meeting my old boyfriend again. It's been more than 30+ years since I have seen him and couldn't find him again if my life depended on it because I only know his first name and where he lived (which I don't) when we were together. I remember his looks, his touch, and our love for each other until I moved away. I'm in my 50s now so he'd be in his 60s. I still masturbate and think of him and I having sex like we used to. I still cry when I think about the loss of the man that will never share my bed or my life again.

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Tue, 05-07-2013 - 2:26pm

During the act of being with my man or by myself as strange as it may sound I fantasize about him cheating on me, like some girl kind of forcing him into it by being persuasive and all over him and him resisting than giving in. The thought of it in real life makes me sick to my stomach but for some reason the fantasy gets me going.

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Tue, 05-07-2013 - 4:06pm

Wow this is a great topic. For me when it comes to sex I am more into the act and the excitement or adrinaline of it more than the fantasy of doing it with a specific person. I fantazise about the fun I could have. I enjoy it rough not too rough, no choking or hitting but little bruises on my hip bones, bite marks, and my head a little sore is a sign a really fun night. Sometimes I do day dream to far and my body does take control.

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Tue, 05-07-2013 - 6:46pm
I often fantasize about not being in control, being handled and taken. Not abuse, but just not in control. Most of the time when I fantasize I will masturbate as well. I used to have a recurring fantasy in which I was interviewing potential new lovers and testing their abilities in different sexual areas.
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Tue, 05-07-2013 - 9:56pm

I fantasize about what my coworker would be like in bed.  She is 5'1" or 5'2" and has a tight body with ample breasts.  I fantasize about her being on top and riding me as I play with her naughty bits until she comes for me. 

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Wed, 05-08-2013 - 12:37am

I really don't daydream about people I know or celebrities. I admit I imagine just a  man I guess, that sounds stupid saying it in those terms, but I'm a woman my imagination is very good. One of the scenarios I fantazise about is having sex with a stranger, like meeting on the jogging trail then going back to his or my vehicle for a blast. I usually imagine the stranger in this particular fantasy bending me over shoving me on the hood hard then ripping my shorts down as I regain my bearings just to have him almost send me flying across the hood. Fuck yeh tha's a good one.

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Wed, 05-15-2013 - 2:25pm

Your story of an old boyfriends sounds similar to me and an old girlfriend.  She was the one that "got away".  I had moved back to the Midwest to live with family and finish college.  To do that, I had to move away from Florida.  I had always thought we would get back together after I finished college but had to focus on my school work at that time.  I called her about six months later to tell her I was visiting for Christmas.  She said things would "be different".  I asked how and then she told me she had begun dating my brother.  

What hurt me was that my brother never mentioned even seeing her.  I was ticked even though I had been seeing other women.  I was ticked at her and also at my brother.  He could have asked if I minded or at least told me it was going on.  But I couldn't do anything about it so I just let it be.  Years later, I came back to her hometown to look her up but she wasn't interested in even seeing me for coffee.  I guess too much time had passed and she was married with children.  I had a life too but just wanted to see how she was and what she may have looked like these many years later.  

I still kind of wonder about her but have no way of e-mailing or getting in touch, even with the internet.  Because woman can get married and change their names, it is harder.  

Things turn out for a reason but we had  agood relationship and the sex was out of this world.  Would the sex still be that good 30 years later?   Probably not, but someone witht that much steam in her early twenties is someone I probably should not have let go.  

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Fri, 05-17-2013 - 6:57am

Spontaneounsey features in my fantaies.

Im a outdoors tradesman, and fantasise about knocking on a door for a qoute and being confronted with a lady in sexy clothing/lingerie insisting i come inside....from there it goes anywhere.

Also fantasise whilst at a job(mainly have this one when the client is pretty hot/appealing), to be offered to come inside for a coffee, and the client starts talking about a lack of sex, obviously dropping the hints.

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