Where to start?

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Registered: 12-03-2007
Where to start?
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Mon, 12-03-2007 - 4:36pm

Afternoon all, I have been a long time watcher, and finally decided I needed to contribute, and maybe ask a few questions.

Hopefully I have my profile filled out right!

My question is how do I write a fantasy for my wife? we have a hard time talking about sex, so I figured if I wrote a fantasy for her, maybe it would open up the lines of communication of what we each like and don't like.

I have read several on here, and they are outstanding. so I am using them as a little bit of how to, but most of them are far more than what she would read right now, so I nead to tone it down a bit, and make it all about her. If only I could figure out where to start.

Sorry for the ramble, and thanks.

TGD "Ability is of little account without opportunity"

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 6:18pm
Welcome out of lurkdom, tigergraddad! I also wrote erotica for my DW, as I way to open up communication about sex, when we started working on our issues. A great way to start is just to imagine a fantasy that's a little bit beyond what your sex life is now, but not too much beyond, and then write it to her in the second person ('you' language), describing what is happening to her as if you're speaking to her and describing the scene.







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Registered: 11-13-2006
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 6:27pm

Welcome welcome welcome!

writing a fantasy for your spouse is a very erotic experience.... start simple... just a little beyond normal and see her reaction. It can be a great way to open conversation, or just a wonderful creative outlet for your own fantasy life!

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 6:37pm
It seems that great minds think alike this evening, oh yellow hatted one.







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Registered: 11-13-2006
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 6:40pm

Yes, I believe they do! LOL

very interesting siggy............

but I must refrain from calling you LORD OR MASTER! LOL

I think I need to ask my friend to make me a dominatrix snow woman!

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 6:52pm
So submitting to such a dominatrix is one of your fantasies, Cindy? ;o)







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Registered: 11-13-2006
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 6:57pm
No my dear Steven.........

I AM the Mistress of THIS domain!!!!!!!!!!!!


however......... I somehow find this little picture quite erotic

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Registered: 11-13-2006
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 7:06pm
Perhaps I can interest YOU in something Steven.........

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 7:08pm
Only if you're offering to wear it for me. ;o)







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Registered: 11-13-2006
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 7:15pm
OH the ONLY collar I would wear from a man is one that is encrusted with diamonds...... but if you have one of THOSE lying around.... then maybe we should talk! ;)
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Registered: 11-13-2006
Mon, 12-03-2007 - 7:26pm
Perhaps something like this......... Master!!!!!!!

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