wife has no interest in sex

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Registered: 08-07-2008
wife has no interest in sex
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Thu, 08-07-2008 - 1:06am
What do you do for release if your wife does not want sex? She just is not interested.
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 08-07-2008 - 8:08am

Hi and welcome male1016. Nice to meet you. Stick around and jump in anytime. The people here are awesome! Hey, will you do me a huge favor? Please fill in your profile so we can know something about you. Thanks!


A few questions, if I may.. How old are you and your wife? Has she always been like this? Is she on any medications? Is she depressed? Menopausal? Has she spoken to her gyno about this?

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Registered: 08-07-2008
Fri, 08-08-2008 - 9:02pm
Ok, I filled out my profile. We are both 49, being married 5 years this Oct. We had good sex for the first 3 years not great just good, no meds change, yes menopausal about the same time but gyno did not have an answer, wife says the newness is gone but i try to change things up, but she is just dead to sex unless I catch her off guard and start a back rub and turn it into oral for her. Then she goes wild. But now she has figured that out so now she never wants a back rub. I tried to go a little kinky with some stuff from Adam & Eve you know (toys) but she is not interested. I just ordered some for me but I will
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 08-08-2008 - 9:44pm

Thank you for filling in your profile. I have to be honest and say I chuckled about about your happy days... It's nice to see another harley rider. What do you ride?


Hmmm, your wife spoke to her gyno and she/he didn't have an answer... Then she ought to get another doctor. You've only been married 5 years, how is the newness gone? I know sometimes



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Registered: 01-19-2006
Sat, 08-09-2008 - 5:37am
Have you looked at this board for feedback and help with a mismatched libido problem?

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlclashing

Ask the people there what they say about stepping outside your marriage, I think you'll get some feedback on that.

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Registered: 08-07-2008
Sat, 08-09-2008 - 9:35am
I have a Heritage softtail 1995 wife loves to ride but only on the back. Yes she works outside the home. Our kids are pretty well grown.