Wild Moments

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Registered: 07-19-2011
Wild Moments
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Fri, 07-22-2011 - 8:25am

Sometimes when you ge pregnant, your sex drive goes way down, but it also sometimes goes way up! For those of us that our sex drive went way up during pregnancy, where was the craziest place you had sex while pregnant? Where were you when the urge hit? What position did you have sex in?

During my last pregnancy, I got so big that the only position that was comfortable was doggie style. My husband and I tried everything else, but nothing was comfortable. Is that normal? I would like to hear from someone who has been through it.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Fri, 07-22-2011 - 1:07pm

Hi and welcome!

I have never been pregnant, :(, but I will say that there is no such thing as "normal" when it comes to sex. What works for one does not necessarily work for others.



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Registered: 05-28-2011
Fri, 07-22-2011 - 5:19pm
I had the problem of sending out too many phermones but my sex drive was nil
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Registered: 10-15-2006
Fri, 07-22-2011 - 6:46pm
thismommylovessex are you pregnant now or just looking for anecdotal references?

The first person who should be consulted about sex positions while pregnant is your OB/GYN. You need to be aware of any restrictions that may apply to you. Quite often women are restricted from intercourse due to medical factors and your physician will advise. In the latter part of my last (of three) pregnancies my conversations about sex with my Dr were frank and helpful and dealt with both my sexual urgency as well as the logistical issues Mr P and I faced.

If you really want to get advice I'd suggest you go here:

http://www.ivillage.com/sex-during-pregnancy-0/6-t-124324

Mrs P

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Registered: 04-26-2011
Sun, 07-24-2011 - 2:02pm
Having gone through a pregnancy from the male side.. We didn't have the same positional issues, but we also didn't vary too much from the standard fare..

Her desire did surge. When there were times when she would be horny but not wanting intercourse, we took advantage of pregnancy boobs (which were more erogenous than usual) for my "needs" while using a vibe for her.

Size limited crazy locations for us, but certain peiced os furniture wer enow more comfortable to do it in for her, more support than a flat bed..

There were also certainly changes in how things felt, smelled, wetness, etc in "that area". nothing bad, just different. I'd cehck on lubrication for sure.

to close, I did notice a huge surge in desire that continued until she was too uncomfortable to enjoy anyting and just wanted the baby out. I thikn it helped that I had no discomfort with her changing body, and didn't pressure her for things.. It also helped, because sex afterwards was a long time in coming.. Not complaining, but I did notice.. once I started to get some sleep again, weeks later ;)