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| Sat, 07-26-2008 - 9:49am |
I am dating a man whom I like very much but I don't find him all that sexually attractive. He's older, very much older, for one thing, and for another, he's rather out of shape. I'm very fit. On the other hand, we have a great deal in common, very many things. He'd make a good husband but for the lack of desire on my part, which he knows about, because I've come out and told him. It's almost as if he doesn't care, but I know he's hurt by my lack of desire. He knows that I'm bisexual and have a few friends with whom I have sex. He's asked me if he could participate by simply watching. He's a dear sweet very intelligent man and completely charming. I'd like to be able some day to have desire for this man. I am thinking that his being there while my girlfriend and I have sex might help my feelings for him. What do you think?

Yeah...I gotta agree with the other here.