Women's fantasies

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Women's fantasies
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Sat, 02-23-2008 - 2:55pm
This months Men's Health had an article on women's fantasies so I went through it and matched them up against my wife's




Men's Health had an article on 'Making her fantasies come true' in the current issue. Top 5


1) stimulating herself while you watch-
Done it/ love that one

2) allowing you to dominate-
Done it/ another good one

3) having public sex-
Three out of three/ really enjoyed that too

4) making a homemade porn-
Kind of, took naked pics/ it was pretty sexy

5) Inviting a third into the relationship-
Dabbled, we both made out with a GF/ that was very hot and the one we have to continue on


5 out of 5, pretty good




Let's hear from the ladies to see how Men's Health did and how you match up
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Wed, 02-27-2008 - 9:39pm
How old is she?
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Wed, 02-27-2008 - 9:53pm


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Wed, 02-27-2008 - 10:27pm

Wow, i really hope something sparks in her, but I can say that do know exactly how she feels.

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Wed, 02-27-2008 - 11:42pm

WOW!!! this thread really took off!!!

I would like to comment on this

'Gotcha.....a low or non existent libido does not discriminate the sexes. However, it is stereotypical that the woman "always has the headache". Is it not??'

Still don't know how to Quote... eh....

I have found the sure fire CURE for a BAD headache is SEX!!!! it can start out as, 'I feel rotten, please not tonight.' then turn out to be breathing heavy, laying there all relaxed and naked and WOW! headache is GONE!!! Other parts are achy but your head doesn't hurt anymore!!! LOL!!

It is also a pretty good fix to hang overs, LOL!!!

As for the rest, meaning wife never in the mood but is good when it happens? IDK. I'm a horny toad!!! I love sex! If I'm sick talk me into it. I'm depressed talk me into it. I'm just feeling emotional because that time of the month is about to happen? TALK ME INTO IT!!!

I am a FIRM believer there isn't much good sex can't cure!!!

hey it helps you drop pounds too!!! I know for a FACT! I can work out all week long, five six days, sweat like no other at the gym and have ONE night! just ONE!! Filled with sex and BOOM!!! 5, maybe 8 pounds lighter!!! 2 sizes smaller!!!

I SWEAR IT!!!

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Sat, 03-01-2008 - 5:27pm
I do realize how lucky I am, my wife didn't have much experience when we met but she wasn't afraid to try new things. I had more experience and explored kinky stuff with previous GF's. During our time together she has become much more confident in herself and that has opened her to exploring her sexuality. I know many of our friends that are in relationships where one partner, either male and female, are sexually repressed. I am very thankful that isn't the case with my wife.
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Sat, 03-01-2008 - 5:34pm

5) Inviting a third into the relationship-
We've never done that, not sure if its something we'd be into at this point
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Dani,
Is this something you might have tried when you were younger/ or single?

In our case it's something that we discussed previously but over the passed couple of years my wife has really opened to the idea of exploring that side of her sexuality. IMO, much of that has come with her being more confident and comfortable with her sexuality, something that I think a lot of women come to as they hit their 30's - 40's

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Sat, 03-01-2008 - 11:50pm
Never tried it.
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Sun, 03-02-2008 - 9:13am

This is just my opinion but has anyone else ever noticed: if you are in a relationship one person will be the one who always wants sex and asks for it? I could be off base here, all I can do is share whats happened in mine. Ever since I can remeber I have been the one who ask for sex. After being rejected so many times, I quit asking. Now according to hubby he is always horny. Can anyone explain this to me? In other relationships

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Sun, 03-02-2008 - 9:46am

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Sun, 03-02-2008 - 10:27am

I'm lost for words. I don't know how he can say is always horny now? But, what is always horny,once a week, once every two weeks. What is horny? We all have different definitions of what is horny, all the time?

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