Would you rather watch or be watched?

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Would you rather watch or be watched?
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Thu, 05-19-2011 - 1:42pm

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Sun, 05-22-2011 - 10:22pm

Hi Tom, what an interesting discussion.

 


 


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Registered: 04-26-2011
Mon, 05-23-2011 - 11:01am
This is a really hard question to answer without qualifying it somehow. If nudity was accepted and not surprising or unwanted wherever it is i'm being naked..

I'd rather be seen naked, as I'm comfortable with my overweight middle aged body, but I'd not know where to look if I saw a member of the opposite sex naked ;)

Now, I'd rather watch folks having sex ( again, both parties willing and such ) than be on display for that. They'd be way to into each other for me to worry about it, and I'm sure my responses would all be appreciative and flattering ;)
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Mon, 05-23-2011 - 11:05am
tulips-together wrote:

I'm exhibitionist trapped in shy person's body, would like to be Watched

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Mon, 05-23-2011 - 11:14am
I have to agree. I think i'm more tuned into the emotions and the reactions of "real" sex that that seeing, for example, well, something I've done.

She was in a dress, bent over the bed, panties at her knees,my pants and boxers at my knees. Of course, she was in her wedding dress, those were my tuxedo pants, and the desire and passion was so intense that after we wheeled the luggage in and the door closed, that happened moments later. It was fast and furious, and when it was over we passed out and didn't wake up for hours ;)

I wouldn't mind being able to watch ourselves do that ;)

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Mon, 05-23-2011 - 11:43am

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Mon, 05-23-2011 - 12:17pm
I have felt the same. Taking off your shirt when you have a belly and stretch marks (as a guy) is going to get noticed.. but folks i've been with have been pretty gracious about it, or strangers ;)

Of course, I think the right one piece (and not skimpy) can be sexier than just being nude, so I think getting comfy in that setting could help. I know from listening and talking with you gals here that you'd be sexy, I wish I knew a way to transfer that knowledge to you ;)
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Mon, 05-23-2011 - 12:21pm
You don't? I mean, i'm not much to look at, Its definitely my winning personality that has helped me in these things, but I've been wanted before, and I've gotten looks tha tsaid all that, or made me worry i'd survive the encounter ;) Granted, after years of marriage and other issues, it doesnt' happen as often now, but.. I like being wanted, and would be sad if I wasn't occasioanlly wanted liek this.

I know I certainly look at her that way :) probably more than she'd like ;)
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Mon, 05-23-2011 - 12:28pm

Also I’m a little jealous.



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Mon, 05-23-2011 - 12:44pm

BL, Your surprise at a man longing to be looked at with that "I want you" look is ... surprising to me!

As a man, we tend to be used to looks that say "Not tonight," or "Not in your lifetime" rather than the looks I have given women who matter to me that says, "I may perish if this longing is not obeyed."

Just me.

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Mon, 05-23-2011 - 1:25pm

lol... Well, sure, we all get/have gotten/have given



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