Would you rather watch or be watched?

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Would you rather watch or be watched?
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Thu, 05-19-2011 - 1:42pm

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Mon, 05-23-2011 - 1:35pm
I totally agree with this, ws. If women ever do this, they sure do disguise it well.
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Mon, 05-23-2011 - 4:08pm

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Mon, 05-23-2011 - 4:35pm
Well, there is a whole long discussion about how a man might be more likely to gaze longingly (or drool, or whistle or.... ) compared to how it might be socially less acceptable to do so.

And I'm fairly sure if you went somewhere, like a Hedonism cruise or something, where naked is expected and just hooking up for the physical is encouraged that you certainly do have women checking men out like you mention.

All I know is three things. No one will mistake me for "very good looking", i've had two experiences where someone I met the first time that night gave me looks like I was the only thing on the menu and she hadn't eaten for days, lookuing up adn down my person. And Lastly, in much the same way i'd worship good boobs, i've been told to strip so she could look me over and ogle (and photograph) my member. (I'm not bragging, as I thought it just seemed like a normal thing, but I've been on display, package and all, just for her show. )

Now, is every gal like that? No. But not every guy acts the same way either.. And I do know that i've been told, more than once, that I was being checked out or ogled or otherwise stated at and was totally oblivious to it.
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Tue, 05-24-2011 - 9:40am
I think this is where reality is messing with your "fantasies" :) There are all kind of social conditionings that would keep a gal from outwardly acting on thoughts and desires, that men just don't get (on average).

Of course, Nh or someone else can correct me if I'm wrong :)
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Tue, 05-24-2011 - 9:53am

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Tue, 05-24-2011 - 11:07am

Hi Tom. This is a great question to consider.

My first thought was that I would rather listen to or even watch others having sex. I like the thought of it being in secret without the other people even

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