Your best description of sex?

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Your best description of sex?
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Wed, 02-09-2005 - 1:13pm

Though there is no way for a man to know exactly what a woman's orgasm feels like, or the feeling of having a guys ya-ya in her hoo-hoo is like. Nor is there any way for a woman to know exactly what it feels like for a man to have an orgasm, the feeling for the guy when his ya-ya goes insider her mouth, hoo-hoo, or other place, or the feeling of having thick white stuff shooting through his ya-ya...let's try to do our best to describe the feeling.

Have you ever been really cold and taken a pair of jeans right out of the dryer and put them on and felt that warmness all over you at one time? You are thinking, oh that feels so good on my thighs...oh, and my tush too...and behind my legs...ooh...and down there too. For me, that's close to the feeling when a guy first enters a woman.

Then if you rub your hands on your legs...the warmness just penetrates your legs and it's like, "ahhhh...that feels great"...that's the repetiton of sliding out and sliding back in...it feels so amazing. Now if you rub your hands really fast...you feel the heat of the friction, but each slide back and forth doesn't produce the same reaction as the first feeling of putting those warm pants on.

Now the funny thing that happens...which reminds me of an automatic garage door opener, or a flood gate...is the repetitive feeling causes a little tingle somewhere inside and "the point of no return" is achieved and involuntary contractions push the semen through it's tube...which causes all the nerves around it to stretch out...resulting in an unbelievable feeling. Now what also happens is something said...a reaction...a sudden gasp by her that I find extremely sexy can immediately open the flood gates as well...and that point of no return takes place.

The unbelievable feeling created with the semen is pushed through my ya-ya is similar to a great stretch when you wake up on a comfy bed and stretch out all the way...take that entire body stretch...condense it into a centralized space. It's tingly...it's unstoppable when it starts...it's just plain awesome.

That's probably the best I can do. Maybe someone else can do better.

Curtis

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Thu, 02-10-2005 - 2:50am

I don't think I can get even close to describing it as well as you did.

 

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Thu, 02-10-2005 - 9:16am

I embarrassed YOU? Wow! I am really surprised that nobody else has taken a stab at this one. There have got to be some creative writers who have a more advanced vocabulary than this Midwestern boy, who can paint a picture for us all to get a little bit closer to understanding what the ultimate physical pleasure feels like to the other sex.

Curtis

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Thu, 02-17-2005 - 3:16pm

Wow...I just started paying attention to the number of times a post is read...585 times...and NOBODY can come up with a description of the feeling of sex or an orgasm to help the opposite sex to get some understanding of the feeling? Can someone step up and swing?

Curtis

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Thu, 02-17-2005 - 4:52pm
I think the voyeurs outnumber the exhibitionists here by about 500 to 1.

 

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Fri, 02-18-2005 - 4:41pm
Curtis, there's no accurate, pinpointy way to describe sex. Then again, none of my past experiences have been that good, so I can't really talk from experience. I know playing with myself is a good feeling, but that's about it. Sorry.
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Sat, 02-19-2005 - 5:32pm

I'll take that challenge:


Have you ever been so hungry when you started eating that your stomach was growling... and then you get about 10 bites into it and yuo sit back with a full tummy, take a long drink of your soda and think... ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhh I feel good. Full. When DH enters me I feel like my hunger is satisfied... but then he startsmoving and it's time for dessert.


When I really want to cum - and he's touching me... it's like there's an itch - that place on your back that you just can't reach and right as he pushes me over the edge it's as if he had scratched right in the exact spot I needed him too and finally relief.


Jennie

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Sun, 02-20-2005 - 8:15pm

I like that itch description...that gives me a really good idea! Of course I'm sure it's a bit more intense...but that does feel really good when it finally gets itched.

Curtis

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Mon, 02-21-2005 - 9:24pm

WHAT IS THE IDEA????


Jennie

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Wed, 02-23-2005 - 1:16pm

>what the ultimate physical pleasure feels like to the other sex.<

Explaining sensations to the other gender is a difficult proposition with the equipment and plumbing differences. Other than the pump, everything else hangs outside a male. Sex for me is a duality: my body and mind experience the emotions, while sex is an external sensation happening outside my body.

My body experiences craving and acceptance by my partner, whereas the throbbing, finding, pushing, opening, coating, warmth and tightness occurs outside. When the orgasm approaches, the ultimate male emotion of filling and domination is overwhelming as the transfer begins. It feels like not peeing for six weeks with the hard buildup underneath. It really is painful and the promise of release keeps one's sanity. A guy can't set back and enjoy his orgasm. Each prostate contraction feels like getting kicked in the behind by a mule, but it's balanced by the external sensation of it rushing up the tube, how a partner captures it, and how it flows back over me.

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Thu, 02-24-2005 - 11:21am

Whoa! This is so weird...my guy asked damn near the same question of me this last weekend Curtis! I had a an almost instant answer for him but I could not put the feeling into words for a couple days and then I came up with this...

I could be sitting next to my lover without a real thought of sex in the air, and then my love happens to say something beautiful...

To me it's like paddling on a board out on a sea of glass. Your working against the calm tide, searching for just the right wave. You can feel the wave start to build and your senses are intensified and you know that if you don't take advantage of the moment and hop up on that board at just that moment you'll lose the chance.

You jump into the wave and your whole body becomes the ocean. Your mind has just as much control as your extremities. You guide your board into the vortex of the wave and ride just under the curl of it, tipped to the side to hold the curl and ride the wave out until it's reached it's peak and you slide into the ocean to ride into calm waters again with the tide gently lapping onto you.

You feel like for just that moment you were in total control of all your senses knowing that if you didn't work with the wave you would have lost it.

That's the best I could come up with.

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