You're 'go to' guy or gal

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You're 'go to' guy or gal
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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 8:33am

So....recently I've been thinking alot about my "go to" fantasy person...and it got me thinking, who is your "go to" guy or gal when you have some solo time?


Do you have one person whom you fantasise about to get the job done or is it jsut whoever pops in your head at that moment?


Is the scenario always the same or do you switch it up depending on your mood?


Whats the situation you fantasise about most often?


Just some questions to get the day rolling ~wink~

Lothiriel


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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 9:01am

Good Morning! Cool thread, Miss L!

Hmm- when I have some "me" time, I often fantasize about different men. Some of my faves are:

-my ex (sigh...he was SO good in bed- hence the baby LOL)
-Nas (rapper)
-Morris Chestnut
-Taye Diggs (a la "How Stella Got Her Groove Back)
-Andre 3000 (lyricist)

They rotate depending on the fantasy- if its on the beach- Taye; if its in the hood (LOL)- Nas. The situation I fantasize about most often (and I think I mentioned it before on the boards) is being on a beach in a little bikini, getting ravaged on the shore by one of the muscle-clad exotic waiters with long locs.

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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 10:29am

Thanks Sistah! ~Wink~


Hehe...I suppose I should answer my own question, I'm bad about that


I have several I fantasises about on a decently regular basis, but there's one man in particular who gets me there everytime. A man by the name of Stian Thoresen. He's a Norwegian heavy metal musician playing guitar from Chrome Division and Vocals for Dimmu Borgir. Generally my fantasies involving him are strikingly similar to most of the stories I've written here on the boards. Him dominating me in a myriad of locations. As for the other men in my rotation:


Grutle Kjellson ~ Another Norwegian heavy metal musician (Bass & Vocals for Enslaved)..typically it's just down and dirty sex with this one.


Daniel Craig ~ James Bond anyone? Something about a very proper British man in a dominant postion lol


Simen Hestenaes ~ Yet another Norwegian Musician( Bass and clean vocals for Dimmu Borgir, Bass & vocals

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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 1:10pm

Oooh- those sound spicy... I like musicians too- my ex was an R&B producer/drummer/pianist, and oh so sexy when he was in music mode. I must admit, there are a few men that I forgot about, because I've been having these dom/sub fantasies for the past few months like heavily:

50 Cent- For some reason I keep having these dreams about him with a bag on his head, muscles bulging, telling me what he wants...LOL. I don't find him attractive at all- well not his face, anyway.

Clive Owen- I think he's really hot, and had a couple of dreams about him- I second the proper British thing.

Lenny Kravitz- love him...I've had many, many dreams where I've knelt at his feet, there for his every desire.

Tee hee- this is fun...I could go on all day!

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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 2:00pm

very nice ...

My go to man is usually the same person. He does not go by any specific name... I dont even know it.. He is just tall, dark and well fit......

Of course I have the typical celebrity if you will. but nothing like my tall, dark and well fit Sir will do. :)

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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 2:05pm
It's funny...I used to have the "perfect man" fantasy person that I dreamed up as well. He was tall, well built, long black hair, blue eyes with an accent. (I love accents lol)....Well I remember being a Junior in high school and going to see Dimmu Borgir in concert for the first time...at the time I didnt know hardly anything about them, just that they were a band my boyfriend (now DH) loved. Well....low and behold I took one look at the singer and it was like Oh my god...who's been stealing images from my head!!!

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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 2:23pm
i can see where that would by quite neat to see the movements of a "fantasy" guy- come true.
You get to watch the moves he would actually make. The way he walks, smiles differently. The way he holds himself and uses his hands....... mmmmmmmmmm
Oh sorry Im getting a little carried away. :)
I dont really need a name, I dont even call out my dh name.
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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 2:31pm
It was really pretty funny...I felt all weird the entire night lol...like I was in the same room with my boyfriend and the guy I "cheated" on him with in my head a million times...but it was neat to see how he spoke and carried himself ect....

Lothiriel


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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 2:34pm
i bet so. Quite nice to have an actual person instead of someone you dreamed up....
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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 2:45pm

I always wondered what would happen if I actually got to meet him in person one day LOL....now THAT would be interesting.....


~Wicked Grin~

Lothiriel


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Wed, 08-20-2008 - 2:57pm
Yes I would have to agree. I would love to see my fantasy man in the flesh..... ohh the things i want to tell him. :)
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