Have you ever "held it" for a guy?

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Have you ever "held it" for a guy?
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Mon, 08-16-2004 - 2:57pm
Something new has come up in my relationship, and I'm certainly interested but was looking for some feedback. I may post on several boards to elicit additional responses because this is a first for me. I looked in the archives, but do any of you have experiences with...um..."holding it" for a guy in the restroom? After a night of partying, I walked in on my bf because I wanted to get something from the medicine cabinet. He later commented that he really enjoyed it -- mainly because of the casual way it happened and how it shows how comfortable we are with each other and he mentioned how he'd like if I held it for him sometime -- that it would be a huge turn-on, just like it was a turn-on for me to see him doing it in the first place. While I'm certainly not oppossed to the idea, I've never done it and am not certain what the turn-on is exactly, but I also kind of like the idea myself but can't explain why. Intimacy of something that's usually done privately? I don't know. It's certainly a new one for me though! I've never ever had that suggested before. I thought maybe it was drunken ramble, but he brought it up the next day when we were sober, too, so I know it wasn't that. I'm not really sure how to go about doing that though, I mean, it's not like we'd really sit and plan it out? It seems like it should be a spontaneous thing. Anyway, any experience or just general pointers I could have? I think I'll wait awhile before entertaining the 'fantasy', but would like to hear of others who may have been in my situation.

Thanks,

Lane



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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 8:23pm

Welcome to the board, Lane.

 

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Registered: 05-09-2004
Wed, 08-18-2004 - 9:33am
I need to give it a try!