low cut dress

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Registered: 07-19-2004
low cut dress
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Thu, 09-07-2006 - 11:09am
my man loves it when i go dancing with my friends and i wear a low cut dress. he says the lower the more clevage the better. he likes hearing how many men get turned on to me and how many i dance with. im in my late 40s and still looking good. we have a great relation. he also goes into strip bars and i dont mind one bit. we have a trusting relationship. whats your opinion? linda

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Registered: 02-04-2006
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 12:19pm


Linda, while both my husband and I enjoy me wearing low cut blouses, I enjoy wearing very sheer see thru blouses or tees even more, especially when out dancing. I’m 22, have high firm “C” breast, it doesn’t take much of a low cut blouse to reveal my nipples. When out dancing I usually wear very, very sheer blouses with a very short mini skirt, always without a bra and panties. Later in the night less people remain in the club, I am no longer as careful how I sit or twirl, whatever shows is O K with us, if the blouse has buttons I unbutton all but one. Many times for the last dance or two I will unbutton that last button sometimes revealing my breast, no one has ever said a word to me, but I do notice the guys getting their eyes full, a very erotic experience for me in public. My husband too enjoys watches the guys looking at me, says it’s a big turn-on for him.

Loni

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Registered: 03-15-2006
Mon, 09-11-2006 - 8:50pm

Both of you two ladies need to keep on doing what feels good to you. BTW, where can I go to watch you dance - lol.

R

 Rich, good to the last drop

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Registered: 12-21-2004
Fri, 09-15-2006 - 5:54pm
I think if it turns you both on then go for it! I am a size 4-6 and am a DD so I have a nice figure. I love to wear shirts that show off my nice chest! DH and I both find it a turn on when other men are obviously turned on. I would wear very sexy shirts if I wasn't certain it would piss off our small chested group of friends, so I don't go too overboard but I do think about it when i pick my outfit. We recently had a male friend make several teasing comments about how much he admires my shape and DH and I had great sex that night. I felt extra sexy and he felt really turned on to know someone we like and admire is so turned on by me. I am not tempted at all by other men (DH and I have an awesome marriage and sex life-married 14 years) but it is really fun to know people find you hot.
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Registered: 05-23-2006
Sat, 09-16-2006 - 11:31pm

Hi linda

whats my opinion? of you or of your man. What I think and what anyone else thinks doesn't matter. If your happy - GREAT.

I have some thoughts. I think your man does not socialize with groups and prefers one on one interaction better. I think he really enjoys hearing about your interaction with the group of friends that you have. He lives a social life through a proxy - you.

Since he encourages you to be a little bit of a flirt, he probably would not mind you showing a little bit more than clevage. Depending on what your comfortable with, a twirl which will expose your legs to your panties probably would not be
discouraged. The men sitting out the dance will be thinking of that line in the "Dirty Harry" movie - "Make my day." as they watch you dance. And don't wear pantyhose.

I would encourage you to dance with him in private. Then when he is proficient, have him take you out (not with your friends) and twirl you around and enjoy first hand your beauty, sexiness and personality.

Personally, I think he is set in his ways, therefore you should continue your social life with your friends, flirt, dance and expose as much of your anatomy as your comfortable. I think you are finding a little bit of a thrill in showing it off.

Have fun!!!!!!!!!!!

curious.too

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Registered: 09-20-2006
Thu, 09-21-2006 - 12:51pm
Linda, I love low cut dresses, blouses that show just a little more cleavage than is "modest." It is a turn on when men can't keep their eyes on my face. I watch their eyes, and when they look back up to my face, I just give them that I saw you looking and I understand look. Some blush, some flirt. My sweetie is a boob man, and is turned on when I wear them, and he thinks it's awesome how even younger men are turned on when I flirt and expose the upper part of my breasts. (I'm not a young chick any more, so it is also good for the ego when I see 25 year old men getting a hard on while I watch them watch me.)
I usually wear things pretty snug (for full effect), but once the blouse I was wearing was slightly larger so it slipped down to just above my push up bra, giving a fairly vivid and clear view of what I had. I also was wearing a small opal on a chain that snuggled down between my breasts, very provocative, if I say so myself. A young friend of my sweeties couldn't keep his eyes off me. My honey encouraged him by mentioning what he was going to do to me when we got home. The young man couldn't help it. He asked what kind of necklace I was wearing. My sweetie just grinned and said, "Why don't you find out?" The young man looked skeptical, but my honey told him I would be glad to show him. He came over, smiled, flirted, asked me to dance, and while we were on the dance floor, he put his finger between my breasts and pulled up the chain to look at the opal, then let his finger rest between my breast, while the side of his hand moved and carressed my nipple to errection. He grinned and said, "You have beautiful jewels."
When I told my sweetie what he had done and said, he laughed and pressed his errection against me. He said, "I know, I was watching." We had the sex about 10 time that night. I say wear um low, especially if it turns on your own sweet honey.
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Registered: 09-02-2006
Sun, 09-24-2006 - 9:03pm
I am living in a celibate marriage, but our sex life was steamy in the extreme for many years. One of my fantasies was to go to a strip club with my DH and masturbate him while he watched the girls. I know that is probably not allowed, but it was just a fantasy...and one I still entertain from time to time!
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Registered: 01-02-2008
Sun, 12-12-2010 - 11:00am

huge fan of low--cut dresses and tops. I'm 36dd and hubby absolutely loves having me show them off every chance we get. I get more risque when we're out dancing or at clubs, so my outfits tend to show a little more. I have one dress in particular that is pretty short, and quite open up top, so I'd say more than half of my chest shows. It's definitey one of his favorites, and I've had no problem getting to the front of the bar lol

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Registered: 08-02-2004
Mon, 12-20-2010 - 12:20pm

Loni,

How would you feel if one of these men turned on by your display came up and started talking to you and either kept looking at your nipples or rubbed the back of his finger against them while they were hard?

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Mon, 01-31-2011 - 10:21pm

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Wed, 02-09-2011 - 3:32pm

One night I was at a dance club.

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