My first real spanking

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Registered: 12-15-2004
My first real spanking
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Sun, 08-28-2005 - 5:24pm

Well, I finally did it...I went all out and met someone who agreed to role play a real spanking with me.

He drove from a long distance. I was so nervous when he called because I knew that he was only five miles away. I am recently single and on my own for the very first time, so I have been having trouble controlling myself when it comes to finances, temper, punctuality, etc... I was also to be punished for having affairs while I was married. He pulled into my driveway, and I nervously peered through the lace curtains in the kitchen. He was tall, with large hands and he was wearing a suit. He carried a bag with him that I could only assume contained the implements of my upcoming "punishment".

We talked for a while. Then he said, "Shall we get started?" He asked me to stand in the middle of my living room, as he began to lecture me on my recent behavior. I had been keeping track of my temper outbursts, financial indiscretions and number of minutes late to work each day for the week, and relaying each incident to him nightly. We both agreed on a safeword for the session. He told me I was to get two swats with a strap for every minute late. Another agreement was for previously agreed on rules, I would forego the warm up he had planned for me, to punish me for the affairs. The night before this rule was to be enforced, he kept me up late talking, and I was 14 minutes late. He agreed to allow me a decision. Either he would reduce the number of the strap to 15 on my bare backside, or I could choose 10 swats with the paddle over my jeans. Choosing the implement of one's punishment is a difficult decision. I chose wrong. In addition to this, I was 5 minutes late the following day, which meant 10 with the strap anyway.

He told me to bend over and grab my ankles. I was to be allowed to jump and scream if necessary, but I was told to get immediately back into position. If I did not comply with requests after 15 seconds, I would receive additional swats with the paddle.

My heart was racing as I spread my feet apart and gripped my ankles. Having never truly been spanked like this before, I had no idea what to really expect. He had removed his jacket and lined up his instruments on the floor. There was a ping pong paddle, a belt, a light paddle, a bath brush, and the object of my current nervousness, a 1 1/2 foot paddle with holes drilled in it.

The lecture continued. He asked if it was true that I had been 14 minutes late. "Yes sir" I said. He raised his arm high, and delivered the first hard swat. I squeezed my eyes shut as searing pain spread through my cheeks. The second swat followed quickly. It was then that I cried out. He was asking me questions between each, that I could barely answer. After the fourth swat, I had to put my hands on my couch. "Get back into postion", he commanded. I did my best. He then told me to begin repeating "I will never be late to work again", followed quickly by a swat. I knew if I didn't repeat the phrase, the punishment would be worse, but as soon as I did repeat, the paddle would once again meet with my reddening rear end. The last three came in rapid succession.

I stood up and attempted to rub my burning bottom. "Keep your hands at your sides", he instructed. "You were five minutes late for work this morning. Is that correct?" "Yes sir", I said meekly. "Remove your pants and panties", he said. I stood there. Was it possible I was going to reveal my ample bottom to a man with spanking implements? I waited to the 15 second mark to remove them. He waited patiently. "Bend over and grab your ankles again." "No, please", I begged. "Bend over and grab your ankles." I complied. The lecture went on as he began to apply the strap. Though not as forceful as the paddle, it still had significant sting.

I barely made it through the strap, and was yelping loudly after each smack. After the strapping, he required that I stand in the corner for five minutes. I knew my butt had to be flamingly red by now, and was embarrassed to stand half naked in my living room while his eyes roamed my backside. He then sat on my sofa to deliver the previously foregone over the knee warm up. He spanked me for a couple of minutes with his hand. I struggled a little. He asked if I had begun to feel real remorse for the affairs. I met his eyes with defiance and dry eyes that were impossible to mistake. "You will get the bath brush, then." He began with the small but powerful brush. At this point, I threw defiance to the wind. I began to plead and struggle, to no avail.

"Over the bed", he said as he allowed me off his knee. I lay over my bed, a pillow under my stomach to raise my butt in the air. He tied my hands and feet to the bedposts. He used a lighter paddle this time, but after so many swats, it was very painful. I began to weep true tears of remorse for my naughty behavior. "Please, please, please...Stop...No...Oooowwww...I can't take anymore...Please," I was screaming now. "I think you have learned your lesson. You will get five more with the light paddle, and one on the bare bottom with the school paddle", he said. Those last six swats were the worst I received, but I knew I had to take them to be done with the session. They rained down on my butt quickly but effectively.

It was now that he released my limbs and took me in his arms, allowing me to cry on his shoulder. I cried for five minutes, then excused myself to the restroom to inspect my throbbing and stinging rear end. I am very pale skinned and expected the worst. I was not to be disappointed. My butt was a multitude of colors. The perimeter was a deep blackish purple that changed to splotchy and varying shades of red in the center. Bending over, I discovered, had exposed more of my rear end.

I went back to the bedroom, where he waited. He comforted me longer, which led to rubbing, then kissing. The session ended with steamy sex, as he asked me to get on all fours. He took me from behind so that he could see my colorful rear as he pumped me.

I went to bed that night satisfied and sore. I am still sore, and am reminded to hold my temper and get up early for work each time I sit down.

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Registered: 10-15-2004
Mon, 08-29-2005 - 12:34pm

Wow, what a story! Spanking has been a huge turn on for me for years.

Was this a true story? If so, how did you meet this person? How did you get comfortable doing this with him? How long have you had a fetish for spanking? Have you been spanked in the past? Was the spanking purely for pleasure, or do you think it will also help to change some of your behavior in the future?

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Registered: 12-15-2004
Mon, 08-29-2005 - 9:08pm
This actually took place on Friday and my butt is still black and blue from it. I went way out on a limb and met him on the internet, which I know is totally dangerous. He even offered references. We talked for 2-3 hours per night before we met, planning out pretty much each detail of the punishment. We are doing this somewhat for discipline, and so far, not so good. I am racking up more swats this week for temper and being late. So far, I am to get another 5 on my bare butt with the school paddle for losing my temper less than 24 hours after being spanked. Then I was 6 minutes late this morning, which is 2 with the strap for each minute late. He says he cannot promise I will be able to sit down next time, although there is a safeword in place. I have had this fetish since I was about 14. I read "The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty" Series at 17 and was hooked. Other than a few spankings as a child.
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Tue, 08-30-2005 - 12:06pm

I have had this fantasy for years as well. I assume this is the first time you've ever acted on it.

How nervous were you when you were talking to him about it? Were you nervous about him seeing you naked since it's not really a sexual relationship? Is it something that you thought about doing in real life for a long time, or did you do it just as a spure of the moment thing?




Edited 9/12/2005 5:06 pm ET ET by iblasters
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Wed, 08-31-2005 - 4:05pm
When are you going to see him again, and do you plan to post your adventure again?
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Registered: 12-15-2004
Wed, 08-31-2005 - 9:07pm

This is the first time I have ever acted on this sort of fantasy, or really any fantasy. This site was devoted to spanking and does have personals that you can search by state. I am told that you will get more responses if you actually write something when you sign up for their free mail/ads posting. All that I wrote was that I had never been spanked but had been very naughty. When I searched, I went write into where you type an address and typed spankingchat, and I think it was the very first site to come up. If you want my email address, I can arrange to give that to you if you have trouble finding it. Be careful though. I hope I haven't made a mistake that will cause me a whole ton of trouble.

I was very nervous about his seeing me naked. He was pretty forward about talking about specifically what I would want and what would be too much. So far, as far as I can tell, he has been honest about himself. He was exactly what he described. We talked for 2-3 hours a night for at least 5 nights before he came here. I was allowed to keep my shirt on for the entire spanking. Funny, I found one of his leather cuffs under my bed today. It is quite exciting holding it, since I had never seen one really, and wasn't exactly focused on being bound to the bed during the spanking.

As for thinking about it, I have fantasized about this forever. Actually acting on the fantasy has been spur of the moment. I had many deterrants in the past. The first, that I am slightly overweight and uncomfortable with my body. Also, I am recently single, not actually divorced yet, since it is an issue of being able to afford to file. I think it will be contested which will make it more expensive. I have discovered that I am prettier than I thought. I never had men falling in my path like this! I am not just talking about this internet guy either. I have had two affairs with people I know and men trying to pick me up at Walmart, work etc... It is something of a self esteem booster. I am 28 and I do enjoy older men, usually 35-50, although my usual is about 42.

Anyway, let me know if you want my email and I will get it to you.

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Registered: 12-15-2004
Wed, 08-31-2005 - 9:17pm

My schedule is kind of hectic now, since I am a single mom now. I am working 60-70 hour weeks to try to make sure I have the money to feed my kids.

I am supposed to see him again sometime next week. My butt is still black and blue and it has been 5 days. I am very pale, so it is taking a while to fade. It is a large paddle shaped marking. I am pretty sure that there were some blisters at first. He took me to dinner afterwards, and I was moving pretty gingerly.

I have continued to be 5-7 min late to work almost everyday, and I lost my temper after my spanking, so he is displeased. I understand that this next time, I am to receive a longer over the knee spanking, followed by smaller implements like the bath brush and a spatula. It will probably sting more since after the paddle, I am sure I didn't get the full effect of the rest of the spanking. I know that after the bath brush, I will once again be restrained to the bed with pillows underneath so my butt is lifted. He tells me I am to get the strap/belt for a while. The entire spanking is going to last 30-45 minutes this time. Hopefully, I will not show the defiance I showed last time. Because I lost my temper (and had time to think before I chased the person down to tell them how I felt in no uncertain terms), he will end the punishment with 5 swats with the school paddle on my bare butt. I barely took one without my panties last time, so I expect to be pleading for him to stop at this point.

We actually really hit it off conversationally and dinner went well, so he has asked me to go to the movie and perhaps the state fair at the end of the month, so we may actually date in addition to the discipline. From talking further, I think he may be more into a BDSM lifestyle than I realized, but I am open to trying some things. I find it really erotic. For a long time, I thought maybe I was just sexually deviant, but I have found that lots of people have this kind of desire.

I will definitely post again. I don't know if I am much of a story teller, but I did enjoy "getting it down on paper".

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Thu, 09-01-2005 - 11:52am

Hi. I would like to hear about the spanking fantasy. Like you, I also thought of myself as somewhat of a sexual deviant. I have come to grips with the fact that it is ok to feel this way. I may actually learn to embrace it. Thanks.

Edited 9/1/2005 7:23 pm ET ET by iblasters




Edited 9/12/2005 5:05 pm ET ET by iblasters
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Registered: 12-15-2004
Thu, 09-01-2005 - 11:10pm
So sorry! Sick baby and worked late. Email me at dashaleann@yahoo.com and we will talk more. I will email tomorrow as soon as possible. I am working evening shift tomorrow, so I will be home after 2300. Talk soon!
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Thu, 09-01-2005 - 11:54pm
Hi. This is truly amazing. I look forward to hearing more detail about spanking.


Edited 9/12/2005 5:03 pm ET ET by iblasters
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Registered: 12-26-2004
Fri, 09-02-2005 - 12:30am
Give,
I love your post. My current SO and I met online, chatted for months before we met and have been together for 2 years now. During our months online, we chatted and cybered about everything including bondage and spanking. Prior to our third time meeting in real life, he told me that we would be living out one of our cyber chats but would not tell me which one. When he arrived at the house, it was with a small silk bag that included silk rope, a leather paddle, a riding crop, a brush and a ball gag. With very little talk, he instructed me to strip to my undergarments and lay face down on the bed. He came in the room, tied my hands to the posts of the bed, gagged me and calmly explained that he was going to read to me a chat we had a few months before. As he read what I had written to him about my fantasy of being tied to the bed and whipped until my bottom was bright red and too tender to touch, I felt a stirring inside that I will never forget. After he read the entire chat, about 20 minutes worth, he asked me if I wanted to live out the chat as he slid his fingers inside me. My head nodded yes as he teased me then I felt the first of numerous attacks on my bottom. He had the video running and took time to take digitals that he later submitted to a spanking website. My ass was so red and sore that I begged him not to crawl on top of me so he started using his hand to please me. I was so wet that all his fingers went inside without any problem. I saw the flash going off and then he asked me if I was ready for him to slide his fist inside. My body responded by shoving down on his fist with it sliding inside me. It was a night of firsts that I will never forget. We continue to enjoy some bondage, spanking and most frequently fisting.
I would love to hear more of your stories of your new friend.

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