Play Time - share your ideas

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Play Time - share your ideas
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Mon, 06-22-2009 - 1:57pm

I am feeling the tug of an idea that started over on the Oral Sex board. The idea I want to explore is how many men and women are deeply fascinated by the sexual anatomy of the opposite sex, how to express that fascination to someone who "owns the equipment", then having the opportunity to lose oneself in the exploration and adoration.

I'm just not sure where to go with that. Would this be a couple's conversation where they are taking turns with each other, exploring and expressing what they are seeing, thinking, desiring?

Any thoughts of your own? Hot or not?

Jake

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Mon, 06-22-2009 - 11:09pm

Yes HOT jake!


I can imagine a couple, in bed in the afternoon, lazily touching and exploring each other. A discovery of what each touch brings from the other, a discovery of what can result from this touching.


I would love to spend a day lost in exploration of my partners equipment!

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Fri, 07-03-2009 - 4:45pm

Jake,

I think you've already explored this idea...

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Sun, 07-05-2009 - 9:31pm

Yes, "My Spa for Your Kitty" was totally about my fascinations alright, but it was somewhat disguised. I'm thinking it might be a hot story for a couple to talk openly about their desires and explore each other, one at a time, maybe directing each other or telling each other what they were seeing and feeling through their own eyes, something like that.

I was hoping the Writer's Workshop might provide some collaboration of ideas or scenarios.

Jake

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Mon, 07-06-2009 - 2:33pm
hey Jake-
I would think it would be kind of nice to blindfold my partner and explore it all....have him tell me what feels good and where to "linger" at. that way he would not be able to see me but tell me what feels right and where... of course taking all day to do would be the best part.
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Mon, 07-06-2009 - 8:51pm

Interesting. I am especially wondering why you want him to wear a blindfold. I am thinking that could maybe heighten his experience a bit, but I'm really thinking maybe it is so he couldn't see you and you wouldn't feel self-conscious while you explore? Can you tell me more about that?

Actually, I have a theory: men are supposedly more visual creatures, so we want to look and see and get turned on by that. Everybody knows and expects that. However, women are not supposed to be visual, but I think that is repressed desire and they do want to look -- they just don't want to be caught looking. What do you think? Am I onto something?

Jake

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Mon, 07-06-2009 - 9:46pm
oh no not at all.
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Mon, 07-06-2009 - 11:43pm

Hmm, I don't know. I am VERY into seeing :-)

I will think about it.

Jake

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Tue, 07-07-2009 - 12:04am
i dont doubt seeing.....its a nice thing.
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Thu, 07-09-2009 - 12:08pm

men are supposedly more visual creatures, so we want to look and see and get turned on by that. Everybody knows and expects that.

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Thu, 07-09-2009 - 3:23pm

I don't know if this is a thought that could lead to a written story, but your description


...a couple to talk openly about their desires and explore each other, one at a time, maybe directing each other or telling each other what they were seeing and feeling through their own eyes...


made me think of a little sex game.

 


 


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