1st "date" - what to do?

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Registered: 05-27-2006
1st "date" - what to do?
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Sat, 05-27-2006 - 3:58pm

Ok, so this Friday (!) I have a date/undate with this really cute guy. I've met him a couple of times before, 'cause it's my best mate's friend.

Then last week he wrote to me (on MSN), and asked if I was interested in seeing him sometime? I've allways thought he was kind of hot, so off course, I said I'd go. We then agreed on going to a concert Friday night. He asked for my number, so he could call me later and plan when and where to meet etc. I gave it to him, he texted me right away, just saying "Hey" and I replied "Hey". We spoke a bit about the concert and the band, adn he said that some of his friends would probably be there, though, so if I wanted to I could bring some friends too.

Now my question is: How do I handle this night, how do I make him fall for me and should I bring friends?? Please help, I'm really a disaster at dating...

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Registered: 11-21-2003
Sat, 05-27-2006 - 4:56pm
Hon, he already likes you so why worry about a first date? Just be yourself, get pretty and enjoy the moment. Don't bring friends, if he wanted to hang out with a group then he would have told you to bring your friends.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 05-29-2006 - 6:49pm

anxious-sugar...

Why does this man "have to fall for you" on the first date? Pianoguy really thinks you're rushing the process much too quickly!!!!

What's wrong with just being yourself?

You can ask him questions connected with his education and hobbies...friends...compliment him on the clothes he wears (if they're spiffy)...talk about movies, tv, politics...and then see if he gives you the opportunity to do the same?

Stop trying to write the future before he happens...cuz it might not! Just go out and have good date together.

Pianoguy