2 dates & no kiss??

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Registered: 11-22-2005
2 dates & no kiss??
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Tue, 02-20-2007 - 8:38am

HI all,

Met a great guy (hes currently going thru a divorce -been separated 2 years), anyway, we went on 2 great dates, we connect very well, he claims hes attracted to me, however, he has yet to kiss me, I mean a peck on the cheek or lips, but thats it, maybe its just me, however, I'm use to the guy at least by the 2nd dating trying to kiss me, I'm just a bit concerned if he has intimacy issues, not attracted to me - or what...any advice would be greatly appreciated - thanks all!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 02-20-2007 - 10:49am

Could be that he's respectful and that he'd like to get to know you as a person before moving forward with anything physical.

Why has he been separated for so long. Is the divorce coming up? IMO, dating a man who's not yet divorced, whether he's been separated 2 days or 2 years, is dangerous territory. He obviously still has lots to go through, indicated by the fact that he's been separated this long.

Proceed with extreme caution.

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Wed, 02-21-2007 - 12:28pm
Not all guys are super forward but you can suggest a quiet evening watching videos and having takeout. That's usually code for, hey want to have a little physical intimacy?
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