2 girls and a guy...

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Registered: 07-01-2004
2 girls and a guy...
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Thu, 07-01-2004 - 4:16pm
Hi I'm a senior in college, never posted before, so I'm sorry if I do this wrong...need to know your thoughts:

Friend #1 has a crush on a boy that has lasted a few months, but she has done nothing about it (not told him, they've never kissed) however they are pretty good friends. She planned on never telling him. Friend #2 had sex with him one night at a party. Friend #1 and #2 were really good friends, #2 knew about the crush. Now Friend #1 has not spoken to #2 in over two weeks since the incident except for one instant message saying she is hurt and not to call her anymore.

This seems an extreme response to me over a crush that wasn't ever going to happen anyway, and my opinion is always chicks before...guys...just wondering what other people who only know the situation and not the people might think...thanks everyone

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Sun, 07-04-2004 - 3:03pm
Hello clb!
Welcome to Ask the Dating Doyenne!!

You didn't do it wrong... actually, you did quite well!