2 Guys - which one to choose -
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| Tue, 08-03-2004 - 10:57pm |
We will start with Guy#1"
I met him three years ago. We were friends and then dated for approximately 6 months (this is what he says - however I don't think it was for very long), then we became friends again. This guy is the most intellectual guy I have met. He is also arrogant but we have mental battles in a good way and it is fun. It is always a challenge. He has a great job, is well versed, well travelled, fun to be with, etc. Problem is, he does not want kids. We have spoken many times and decided it would not be a good idea to date again no matter how much we care/love one another. When I am dating someone he disappears and he is hurt. I try my best to stay in touch but he pushes me away.
Guy #2
We met about 4 months ago. This guy is sweet, caring, and shares a lot of himself and his time, which is great. However he does not have a job nor a car for reason beyond his control. I started to feel like a chauffeur. I also felt the need to separate Guy#1 to Guy#2 because I knew that Guy#1 felt uncomfortable and so did I. I also started to miss my freedom. We have broken up twice and now have not spoken for 4 days. Not sure what to do - because if I could put Guy#1 and Guy#2 together, it would be perfect - except both of them DO NOT WANT KIDS.
Not sure what I am asking for, but who do I choose?

But if you do want to continue dating either of these two men in the meantime, I would stick with the guy who has his life together #1. You don't need to be a mother to a guy who can't get his act together.