2 years, STILL think about Ex. help!
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| Wed, 05-12-2004 - 2:07pm |
Ive now been dating a truely great guy for the past three months. he is open, caring, sweet, funny, etc. and really wants a serious, healthy relationsip with me. Im happy, i do like him and want to continue being with him but-----
i still think of my ex a lot. i still have this small pt of me that believes we are meant to be and hell come back--as stupid and unrealistic as this sounds, i cant get that last hope out of me. in reality i know hes an unhappy and unhealhy person and isnt good for me anymore and that ive grown matured changed and deserve much better
i feel so guilty for having thoughts of him and missing him. i always wonder if he regrets, thinks of me, misses me, etc. WHY? why cant i get him out of my head for good? why cant i keep going and not look back, especially after how he acted/treated me
its also affecting me opening up to new guy. i have this emotional wall up still because of what i went though. i feel its never going to change and im cursed!
how do i get my ex OUT of my head for good? i KNOW it takes time, but im sick of wasting time on him. ive already wasted two years and i want to be with the guy im with now. im close to 30 years old now.
any advice???

As for the new guy and the wall you've built, I think counseling would be a good idea so that you maximize the chances of succeeding in this r'ship.
Sheri