20 and never had a date
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20 and never had a date
| Mon, 03-29-2004 - 4:20pm |
I'm 20 years old and have never been on a date. This is largely due to the fact that I rarely get really strong crushes and in High school I was incredibly shy and insecure. However, know that I'm in college I'm happy, content and get along with almost everybody....and, there's a guy who I really like. He's awesome; nice, sweet, considerate and he's not a player, but he's the type of guy who was extremely popular in high school and I'm kind of intimidated by that. We used to get along great, always doing that friends-flirting type of thing, but, now that I realized how much I like him, I don't know how to act around him. I can't even look at him sometimes. I have no idea what to do. I can't ask him out because he would go just because we're friends and he wouldn't want to hurt my feelings, and I don't want my first date to be a pity date. I've tried everything I can think of to get over him, but I just like him more and more. Does anybody have any suggestions on what I can do? And especially, tricks to act more normal around him? Thanks.
Oh yeah, and he's not shy. Quiet sometimes, but I really don't think he's shy.
Oh yeah, and he's not shy. Quiet sometimes, but I really don't think he's shy.

And in case your wondering about that guy I liked. As I said I took the flirting a bit further, although really subtle, and he was totally okay with that. In the end, he told me he really liked me and invited me along. Unfortunately it only lasted for four weeks, but we're still good friends, in fact, even better friends than we used to be,
Good luck to you
Love
Kristen