25 year old virgin! ah!
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25 year old virgin! ah!
| Thu, 09-09-2004 - 1:12am |
so let me ask all of you "guys" out there... i am 25 years old and a virgin. not because of religious or moral reasons. i have never had a serious boyfriend either. i do however, have a best friend (a guy) and we have been friends for about 6 years now. i have very strong feelings for him (which i have told him about a few years ago). when i did tell him, he was dating another girl at the time, and he never "turned me down" BUT he also never "said YEEEEESSSS"... my question is this: after all these years, do you think this guy will EVER make a move? i find it hard to meet other men because i am not the "typical" blonde thin bombshell. am i hopeless or should i just move to a different city (joke).
please someone take the time to write me back.
please someone take the time to write me back.

You are 25 and still a virgin but i think thats perfectly okay.You have been smart to save your virginity for the right man.But i think, you need to evaluate your realtionship with that guy with whom you have been friends for the last 6 years.
Personally, i feel that if that guy is romantically attracted to you, it should not take him so long to propose you.Maybe he is considering you as a good friend and nothing beyond that.I think its better to ask him about what he feels for you instead of waiting for him to make the move.This will clear any doubts you have have about your relationship.
All the best.
Will the "meaning of life" for you be COMPLETELY DEFINED on the day you're no longer a virgin? Moreover...are you sure that this "Mr. Right"....IS "MR. RIGHT?" . Pianoguy is 'negatory' on both of these questions.
Here's something to kick around though....
Self-respect for YOU might be the reason your particularly gentleman is "holding back?" A few of us still are considerate of a woman's feelings....as square as this probably sounds?
Anyway...after the deed is done (by whomever)...how much "self-respect" are you going to have for YOURSELF? Especially if you 'rush' into DOING IT with the wrong man!
Think about it.
Pianoguy