2nd date

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Registered: 07-15-2004
2nd date
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Thu, 07-15-2004 - 2:15pm
Hi! Met a guy at a bar near my cabin and we hit it off, talking & dancing all night. We agreed to meet for dinner back home and exchanged numbers. By the agreed upon day, I had heard from him, so I called him. We made arrangements to go to dinner the next night. He came to my house, we had a drink and went to dinner. We spent about 3 hours at dinner and then went for a couple drinks (upon his suggestion) after. The whole thing lasted 6 hours. Conversation was good, he did a lot of the talking (I was asking questions).A little flirting, lots of eye contact. When he dropped me off, I told him I had a great time and he agreed and asked if I'd like to do dinner again. I said that sounded great and he had to pick the next restaurant, as I picked the first one. I gave him my card w/ my email on it thinking he might like it. I rubbed his arm and thanked him again (no kissing). So, my question....It has been a week, do I call him or not? He seems to be a laid back guy and not taken aback by my initial call. He said he was glad I called. He is new to the city as well.

I could be really interested in the guy, we have a ton in common. I just don't want to freak him out by making 2 "first" calls. advice??

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: summerrules
Thu, 07-15-2004 - 2:28pm
If he's interested in seeing you again, he'll call. He might be flattered by your attention if you call him again, but the only way to know if he's really interested is to let him call you.

Sheri

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Registered: 05-05-2003
In reply to: summerrules
Thu, 07-15-2004 - 2:35pm
I agree let him call you.

Some guys think there's some sort of proper waiting period before calling again, so he may just have a longer one than others.

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