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3 sates and nothing
| Wed, 03-10-2004 - 3:22pm |
I just read first date non-jitters and became compelled to ask for advice on this one. I, like her, met a guy online and met him almost a month ago. We have gone out three times and he still hasn't tried to kiss me or even hold my hand. I made him touch me last night just to see if he would! We email and IM back and forth all day and he calls some evenings. Last night he even sat at the library and studied for 3 hours while I had class so we could go to dinner. He even got me a small birthday gift. So clearly he seems into me. The emails and IM's have that whole flirting and bantering thing going on as does our conversations...but what is his deal? I do like him but that fact that he has not kissed me seems odd. It stresses me out so much becuase it hasn't happened. I am the opposite of non jitters though - I feel like I am going to puke all over him. Super attractive huh? Well, what do you guys think? One of my friends is convinced he's gay, the other he's married, another says he's not married otherwise he'd be all over me, and finally one thinks he really likes me and is making sure that things are not going to fast as to make me uncomfortable. Love any advice!

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I am actually talking w/ another guy as well - kind of feeling guilty about this cause I like 3 date guy but the differnces between the two of them are huge. I feel like I am getting to know them both but w/ 3 date guy I really don't know about any past relationships or where he stands on a lot of issues but the other guy i know tons about. The other guy has asked to get together - which is fine and I think it is no big deal since as far as I can tell 3 date guy and I are just pals at this point.
This has never happened to me so I am clueless. I hate dating!! ;)
Maybe he senses this and is suspicious of getting burned or just thinks something's not right. I've been in similar situations a number of time long ago and passed things up. Maybe I missed out, but my instincts were almost always right.
Have you talked about past relationships? Perhaps
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