is 33 too old for 20 yr old?
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is 33 too old for 20 yr old?
| Sat, 09-25-2004 - 5:12pm |
hi there -
i was wondering if you could give me some advice. i'm a 20 yr old girl and am happy with my boyfriend. however - lately, i have been tempted by a 33 yr old who i met at work and i have feelings for him too. could this just be a passing phase and that im enjoying the attention? i kissed the older guy this week and haven't told my boyfriend - as i'm scared that it may cause us to break up and i don't wnat to lose him. furthermore - i don't know what i want - an older, more mature guy, or my boyfriend who i've been going out with for over a year. would the 13 yr age gap be a problem as well?
please can you give me some advice as i'm stuck and have no idea what to do.
thanks very much.
kels.

I suggest concentrating building a life for yourself and how it looks w/o a guy as a "cushion" to fall back on. You are at the "rookie" stage of adulthood. What does this mean for you? Concentrate on making yourself the best person you can be and all the rough edges will polish out themselves. Maybe the fact you like this older man is a "sign" that you need to spend more time TO YOURSELF to figure out what YOU need for YOURSELF in & from your life - instead of finding answers in another person. Forget about the 33 year old. Good luck, be strong!
Thanks alot - its been really helpful.