Advice.

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Registered: 03-11-2013
Advice.
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Mon, 03-11-2013 - 8:14pm

hello. i have been dating a guy for 2 months and we both seem to like each other. the first date was great, 2nd date was good. i enjoyed his company. here is the thing. after our 2nd date he dropped me off to the train station and i gave him a kiss and a hug i said " i'll see you around" by accident...i shouldve said something like i'll see you later" or til we meet again. what should i say since i blurted it out? i want to plan a next date. please give me answers to this.

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Registered: 12-05-2010
In reply to: cranberro
Tue, 03-12-2013 - 12:23am

A short email to him should do the trick. Tell him you had a great time and remain interested in dating him.

Only 2 dates in 2 months? It doesn't sound like strong interest is there to begin with.

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Registered: 08-09-2012
In reply to: cranberro
Tue, 03-12-2013 - 8:30am

cranberro wrote:
<p>hello. i have been dating a guy for 2 months and we both seem to like each other. the first date was great, 2nd date was good. i enjoyed his company. here is the thing. after our 2nd date he dropped me off to the train station and i gave him a kiss and a hug i said " i'll see you around" by accident...i shouldve said something like i'll see you later" or til we meet again. what should i say since i blurted it out? i want to plan a next date. please give me answers to this.</p>

Any reason why you didn't text or call him after you were on the train and tell him what you said above?  You had a train ride back home to correct that and let him know that your interest in him was high.

Tell him what you said above.

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: cranberro
Tue, 03-12-2013 - 10:36am

So why not just call & ask him out?

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Registered: 03-14-2013
In reply to: cranberro
Thu, 03-14-2013 - 11:11am

Read the book "Why Men Love Bitches"  by Sherry Argov

GREAT insight to dating. Don't worry about what you said. Men love the thrill of a chase. He most likely will not read into it or will pursue you even more if he's interested.