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advice for amateur please
| Thu, 09-01-2005 - 3:35pm |
Hey I'm 19 years old quiet, in good shape, easy going and am told I am mature for my age. In the past year I have had 3 boyfriends, all of which were serious or somewhat serious and I ended up getting hurt every time. I think this is because the guys were young and need to keep on being young right now.
Anyway I'm going back to college soon and I'm thinking about just strictly DATING guys for awhile. I just want to have fun and figure out what I need/want.The problem is I have never done this and I am very quiet so getting guys to ask me is hard and then dates can be hard too. Any tips/advice to help me with this or any other aspect of dating around?

oddlyem...
Pianoguy congratulates you on your "return to college!" Hopefully, your studies will receive the necessary attention that your social life will?
The only suggestion I have for dating anybody...is to KEEP THINGS CASUAL AND DON'T GET SERIOUS! If you're connecting with a lot of different men, make it clear (to each) after date #2 that a serious relationship (or commitment) ISN'T WHAT YOU WANT RIGHT NOW! Reinforce the friendship factor instead.
Some men will be 'turned off' by your honesty, but others will accept it!
WHY? Because you've become "a challenge!" And many men enjoy that in the women they choose to date.
Best wishes and warm thoughts,
Pianoguy