Advice - to go exclusive or not?
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| Wed, 09-21-2005 - 1:57pm |
I'm cross posting from Single Life...as I think this forum might be more appropriate for the following...
I'm looking for some other opinions on what to do here. This might be a long explanation - so hang in there!
I've had a profile on an internet dating site for about a month. In that time, I've met 5 guys in person and I have another one who I'm still just corresponding with via email. I've already "ruled out" 3 guys and I've told them that I'm not romantically interested in them.
When it comes to the other 3 -
Bachelor # 1 - I really, really like this guy. We've been on a couple of dates, he's brought me flowers, I made him dinner - he even spent the night. Now he's off on vacation...and it truly feels like absence makes the heart grow even fonder in this case.
Bachelor #2 - Only been on 1 date - he's a nice guy, but I didn't really get to know him very well. I definitely think we could be friends - we'd have to go out more for me to see if there's more there.
Bachelor #3 (email only) - He seems very nice in emails, but I never get a true reading on a person and my feelings for them until we meet in person.
So - the crux of the issue is, I really like Bachelor #1 - but it's only been a few weeks. I feel like if I tell #2 & #3 that I'm going to stop dating other people, I might be putting all my eggs in one basket, so to speak.
I'm not sure if I should discuss this with Bach#1, because I'm afraid it might scare him away. I just wonder if it's really fair to the other guys that I'm going out with them, but comparing them to Bach#1 the whole time.
Thoughts? Advice? What would you do?
Thanks!!
| Wed, 09-21-2005 - 8:36pm |
| Thu, 09-22-2005 - 1:25pm |

