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| Mon, 05-10-2004 - 3:17pm |
I am soooo confused. I am in awkward situation now. I broke up with my ex bf 4 months ago because of a big fight. He said it was right thing to do because our personalities are incompatible. We had dated about 7 month until we broke up. I liked him, but I can¡¯t tolerant sometimes his inconsiderable. Even I was mad about broke up, finally I have over it. I am dating an other guy now. Last weekend, my ex bf and I did some outdoor activities together. ---we see each other almost once a week since we broke up to finish up something we have to finish before we broke up. We finished it two weeks ago, but he invited me for my belated birthday dinner. Then last weekend. We went out to grab something fast to eat after the outdoor activities. When he drops me off at my apartment, we kissed for good night. However, it turned to passionate kissing. He said ¡°we are still having passion, aren¡¯t we?¡± We had a passionate moment. He told me that he haven¡¯t seen any other girl since we broke up because he is shy. I feel confused. I like the guy I am dating now, even we have our problem. Next day I asked my ex bf where are we now. He said we are not bf/gf, we are dating. I told him I am seeing other person. He said it is OK since we broke up. He wants to date instead of to be bf/gf, because we are happier. I feel it is uncomfortable and it is hard to do. We know each other a lot and we were in the serious relationship. The whole dating scene is different. I can¡¯t like two persons at the same time. What should I do? Also, the MOST important is does he just want to hang out with me until he gets new girlfriend or he still have feeling for me. Because he didn¡¯t want talk about the conflicts we had before. I thought we have to find the solution first to see weather we can have feature together or not. I feel hard to back to date him again since we already know each other a lot. Also, I am dating another guy now and I like him even we haven¡¯t really talked about where we are going . I don¡¯t want to hurt anybody and don¡¯t want to be hurt either. what my ex really thinking? What should I do now?
