Advice Please

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Registered: 04-18-2006
Advice Please
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Sat, 09-09-2006 - 1:37am

Ok here it is. Over 6 months ago me and my first love broke up. But his mom and I remain friends. She wants me to come and visit her. She calls me on my cell. She asks me how life is going and how I am doing. She will ask me all sorts of things about my life.

Question is this normal. For a mother of and ex boyfriend to want to stay close?

Anybody PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 08-11-2004
Sat, 09-09-2006 - 9:33am
It sounds kind of strange. Maybe she doesn't have many friends or something? I guess the main thing would be that you should consider your ex's feelings. Are you on good enough terms that this wouldn't be causing him serious problems?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 09-09-2006 - 10:40am

class1979....

PG suggestion:

Why not get together for lunch AT A PUBLIC RESTAURANT with your EX's mom?

This way you won't risk the possibility of 'running into the former b/f'...and you can keep any conversation (and your past feelings) with his Mother on an even keel!

I'll bet his Mom misses having you around? But the last thing YOU want to do is give her the impression that you still have 'strong emotional feelings' for her son, along with any desire to get back together?

Pianoguy

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Registered: 04-18-2006
Sat, 09-09-2006 - 1:07pm
well me and her son have not talked in 6 months. So I dont know what kind of terms there is. I dont know if he hates my guts or what. He ended it with me and it was one very messy break up. Even though he said he never meant to hurt me.