Advice Please on this guy?
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Advice Please on this guy?
| Mon, 02-16-2004 - 2:46pm |
To make a long story short, I dated this guy for a few weeks it went really fast (we weren't intimate) but spent way too much time together. I should have known the red flags were there... just got out of a 2 year relationship 5 months ago. Well, things were good then he dumped me just like that said he couldn't see me anymore. I was hurt. Well I saw him a few weeks when classes started and he was so excited to see me. He told me that he got scared that is why and that he can't move forward without lettin the past go, so he wants to just take it slow and see if a relationship happens in the future. Well we talk everyday now, to see how our days went and see each other about twice a week, at the bars and we spent V-day together.. he cooked dinner and brought me wine. One night at the bars I was drunk and we were making out and I told him that I wanted to "be" with him. I like this guy so much.. Then he told me he wanted to be with me too.. except that he doesn't want to hurt me so that it isn't a good idea. He wants to make sure things are right between us first and IF we do have sex he wants it to be meaningful and special with me. I'm pretty sure he isn't dating anyone else.. but I honestly don't know. Do you think what he said was truthful or he doesn't want to have sex with me? I like him alot and I'm pretty sure he likes me too.. i can tell by the way he holds my hand and kisses me. He knows my friends.. and I know his..Since we had a relationship, it ended and now we're takin it slow.. how do I know where we stand? Our we dating? Should I ask him or not cuz I don't want to scare him.

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